Chinaski
Arthur Scargill appreciator
- Sep 1, 2018
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Just wondering if any men here are feeling especially depressed about sharing a flat with the Dutch President of the Parliamentary Assembly for the Council of Europe?
Amazing.One could argue about the objective importance of small genitals.
Sorry but with your post you just sound like a troll. Here are people who went through hell because of their body. Your post demonstrates 0 empathy. If you took their pain seriously you might would come to a different opinionAmazing.
No need to apologise, fwiw l think the majority of your posts are high in effort, low in quality spam. We can't all get along with each other here, and I'm okay with that. Another thing I'll say here is that anguish over penis size is very strongly represented on this forum, some might say disproportionately so, threads on penises are churned out on a regular enough basis and it's very much the theme that "empathy" is demanded for this absolutely crushing experience from those who have a consistent failure to take any perspective which does not place themselves at the centre, and these same penis-posters have offered "empathy" to absolutely zero people with issues that are not penis related.Sorry but with your post you just sound like a troll. Here are people who went through hell because of their body. Your post demonstrates 0 empathy. If you took their pain seriously you might would come to a different opinion
A small penis size is very stigmatized. You can feel the shame of these men. In my opinion posts like yours are not helpful at all. Quite the opposite.
The thing is I read on here nightmarish stories about bullying due to penis size. Something like that can be pretty traumatizing. When people share their secret with us about this stigmatized topic they in a very vulnerable situation.No need to apologise, fwiw l think the majority of your posts are high in effort, low in quality spam. We can't all get along with each other here, and I'm okay with that. Another thing I'll say here is that anguish over penis size is very strongly represented on this forum, some might say disproportionately so, threads on penises are churned out on a regular enough basis and it's very much the theme that "empathy" is demanded for this absolutely crushing experience from those who have a consistent failure to take any perspective which does not place themselves at the centre, and these same penis-posters have offered "empathy" to absolutely zero people with issues that are not penis related.
Also fwiw "empathy" is bullshit, the majority of people on here don't give much of a shit about what others are going through, "empathy" served up on demand is performative, dishonest and by definition not empathy, and there's no rule to state that everyone must pretend that not having a massive penis is one of the worst experiences a person can go through.
A few penis-posters didn't have sufficient empathy, so now mocking all men with small penises is fine? Btw, I'm not against you on this point, since it's actually a joke (unlike when someone just adds the word "incel" to a sentence and thinks that's funny). The justification itself just seems pretty bad.it's very much the theme that "empathy" is demanded for this absolutely crushing experience from those who have a consistent failure to take any perspective which does not place themselves at the centre, and these same penis-posters have offered "empathy" to absolutely zero people with issues that are not penis related.
This could actually be comforting to those who are sharing a living space with Mr. Kox.there's no rule to state that everyone must pretend that not having a massive penis is one of the worst experiences a person can go through.
I found the guy with a small wiener!To be honest I don't think the wordplay in the title is very funny. One could argue about the objective importance of small genitals. Though the subjective suffering can be immense. I have read of men who were severely bullied because of it. Sorry but this is no topic to joke about.
I think jokes like that are part of the problem. Such a mentality leads the media to write that bullying was part of this forum.I found the guy with a small wiener!
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It's not a justification, l dgaf if people like my posts or not - l was putting my view on the usual empathy-policing bullshit and why l think it's risible bollocks, and often the demands for empathy seem to always be going one way.A few penis-posters didn't have sufficient empathy, so now mocking all men with small penises is fine? Btw, I'm not against you on this point, since it's actually a joke (unlike when someone just adds the word "incel" to a sentence and thinks that's funny). The justification itself just seems pretty bad.
There's no ways you said this .penis-posters
Lower supply, higher demand.and often the demands for empathy seem to always be going one way.
What you're saying here about empathy is a distorted belief.Also fwiw "empathy" is bullshit, the majority of people on here don't give much of a shit about what others are going through, "empathy" served up on demand is performative, dishonest and by definition not empathy, and there's no rule to state that everyone must pretend that not having a massive penis is one of the worst experiences a person can go through.
I think the joke from whatevs was poking at people who calously dismiss this issue.I think jokes like that are part of the problem. Such a mentality leads the media to write that bullying was part of this forum.
Okay then I got it wrong. Sorry @whatevsWhat you're saying here about empathy is a distorted belief.
I think the joke from whatevs was poking at people who calously dismiss this issue.
One has to separate harmless jokes from actual attempts at psychological injury. If I had a small dick I would make the jokes myself as long as it was among friendly company.Okay then I got it wrong. Sorry @whatevs
Maybe I am overreacting. I was bullied in school severely for being obese. So I find it cruel when people are not sensitive enough about other people's bodies. And if I was in the shoes of these men I would feel very awful.
I should not spend either way much more time into this discussion.
Hell has different meanings from person to person. No one can help genetics, from the time of conception, we are stuck with our genes.Okay then I got it wrong. Sorry @whatevs
Maybe I am overreacting. I was bullied in school severely for being obese. So I find it cruel when people are not sensitive enough about other people's bodies. And if I was in the shoes of these men I would feel very awful.
I should not spend either way much more time into this discussion.
The thing is I read on here nightmarish stories about bullying due to penis size. Something like that can be pretty traumatizing. When people share their secret with us about this stigmatized topic they in a very vulnerable situation.
I consider jokes concerning this topic from people that are not affected as disrespectful. For me this is similar to fat shaming or making fun of people who don't identify with their biological sex.
I think penis size is often only one problem out of many for these people. I don't think it is necessary consider one body issue less relevant than others.
Sometimes I can relate that people might overestimate the importance of the size of their genitals. But recently I read a real horror story of a person with exactly this problem. And it caused a lot of pain in him. He was bullied by so many people because of it. So we should not underestimate the potential impact of this problem. Some people consider to commit suicide because of it.
Look, it's not about the perceived insensitivity towards the issue itself. But when I think of stuff like menstrual cramps and pcos, I hardly think we hold a candle to that.
You have to, at the very least, consider the possibility that there are people on here getting off to dozens of users engaging with them in a discussion about their private parts.
I would think too for a minute about the many women who have suffered sexual abuse and likely don't want to be confronted with multi-page penis threads. There are way more on here than you might think.
Beyond that, it sets a kind of an unsavory precedent whereby we open the door to these types of discussions on an ongoing basis. This is a very diverse community and I think it makes the most sense not to discuss man-junk too explicitly, all things considered. Especially when there are countless male-only communities online that cater virtually exclusively to topics relating to this.
blasting out prog rock records while you're trying to do the crossword
I do all my posts whilst standing naked in front of a full-length mirror rather than looking down at my phone, that way l feel a lot better about myself whenever I'm being woke on the internet, silencing people, cancelling, strawmanning, etcShitposting about genuine penis-posting makes the problem look bigger, which might solve the actual problem
I call this The Penis-Poster paradox.