Su Xin
赠人玫瑰，手有余香
- Dec 5, 2024
- 18
On December 27, I received a reply on ss (it was my current lover⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝ꕤ*.ﾟ)
I became very interested in her that day and wanted to be friends with her (
now my current lover). She told me about MBTI in the post. I had done this test before. Then I watched the video about us (MBTI). Later, we discussed each other's experiences, hobbies, insights and various environments. It was amazing that she became interested in me. It might be because we are both Chinese, or it might be other reasons.
Later, we added each other's WeChat and started to prepare for our relationship. During this period, she talked about her partner selection criteria (I can only meet a small part of them at present, it's strange that she agreed to my confession), and also talked about her childhood experience. I'm sorry that she has been living in such an environment (there are too many factors that cause her current personality and I can't tell which one is the key point). I don't know her very well, but over time, I will slowly understand and realize that what she did was not her fault.
I am very happy and lucky to have met you, my love, who helped me when I was at my lowest point. Thank you! I don't want CTB now, and I have also been relieved of the harm caused by my past experiences (of course, my experiences are just a joke to everyone here, but it seems that there is no way I am so sensitive and can't forget them, and keep ruminating). Thank you again! My love, I love you
However, my love did not change her long-term lifestyle because of my arrival. The house has been built, how to change the foundation, it is very difficult.
My love's mood has been ups and downs, just like my previous state (she gets sick every once in a while, I think it should be a state of depression). I communicated with her and thought that the "illness" was compared and different from ordinary people, but is the "illness" really good? I have a different concept from her. I like peace (of course she also likes quietness and hates people around herchattering). I have too little contact with my lover. I don't know her truest hobby in her heart (peace or other), but I won't hate her or alienate her because of this. After all, loving someone is all about loving her. She likes to be treated gently and is very happy. This is my strength. I can easily satisfy her. I have good adaptability. Haha, I will understand what she does.
My favorite lifestyle in my heart is to care for her, cherish her, have a little quarrel, understand and support each other, share each other's joys and sorrows, and face them together (I don't look in the mirror, this is just what I see in my heart at present)
(translated by Google)
I became very interested in her that day and wanted to be friends with her (
now my current lover). She told me about MBTI in the post. I had done this test before. Then I watched the video about us (MBTI). Later, we discussed each other's experiences, hobbies, insights and various environments. It was amazing that she became interested in me. It might be because we are both Chinese, or it might be other reasons.Later, we added each other's WeChat and started to prepare for our relationship. During this period, she talked about her partner selection criteria (I can only meet a small part of them at present, it's strange that she agreed to my confession), and also talked about her childhood experience. I'm sorry that she has been living in such an environment (there are too many factors that cause her current personality and I can't tell which one is the key point). I don't know her very well, but over time, I will slowly understand and realize that what she did was not her fault.
I am very happy and lucky to have met you, my love, who helped me when I was at my lowest point. Thank you! I don't want CTB now, and I have also been relieved of the harm caused by my past experiences (of course, my experiences are just a joke to everyone here, but it seems that there is no way I am so sensitive and can't forget them, and keep ruminating). Thank you again! My love, I love you
However, my love did not change her long-term lifestyle because of my arrival. The house has been built, how to change the foundation, it is very difficult.
My love's mood has been ups and downs, just like my previous state (she gets sick every once in a while, I think it should be a state of depression). I communicated with her and thought that the "illness" was compared and different from ordinary people, but is the "illness" really good? I have a different concept from her. I like peace (of course she also likes quietness and hates people around herchattering). I have too little contact with my lover. I don't know her truest hobby in her heart (peace or other), but I won't hate her or alienate her because of this. After all, loving someone is all about loving her. She likes to be treated gently and is very happy. This is my strength. I can easily satisfy her. I have good adaptability. Haha, I will understand what she does.
My favorite lifestyle in my heart is to care for her, cherish her, have a little quarrel, understand and support each other, share each other's joys and sorrows, and face them together (I don't look in the mirror, this is just what I see in my heart at present)
(translated by Google)
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