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whocares?

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I'm dont know if I am too much for asking this, but I'm scared. I was wondering what the silence meant in the last post. I'm wondering if I were a bad person, alot. And I'm still regretting the things I had done.
Please, talk to me, I need an answer. This keeps buzzing in my brain for weeks now, having to sit back and see what I had done.
I cant see further than this. Am I a disgusting person?
Please, tell me what I did wrong, and I will improve myself
 
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Hi friend, what post are you talking about? I'm unable to find it.
 
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It was on my profile. Titled " This feels wrong"

Thank you so much for caring ❤❤❤
I read the post and I just want to let you know none of that was your fault. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You're not a bad person at all. You're reacting to the trauma that was put on you and it's hard to process. Please don't blame yourself for those feelings. You were a child and didn't know any better and the people you trusted betrayed you. I hope you can find a way to take care of yourself through this :( 💗 I was assaulted by my brother as a kid and it was really confusing, so I understand how it feels. You're not a bad person my friend! I promise!
 
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I read the post and I just want to let you know none of that was your fault. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You're not a bad person at all. You're reacting to the trauma that was put on you and it's hard to process. Please don't blame yourself for those feelings. You were a child and didn't know any better and the people you trusted betrayed you. I hope you can find a way to take care of yourself through this :( 💗 I was assaulted by my brother as a kid and it was really confusing, so I understand how it feels. You're not a bad person my friend! I promise!
I'm sincerely grateful that you talked to me. I value this, alot. Thank you so much.😭
And I'm sorry that you went through this as well. I truly hope that you're going well now. Wish you the best ❤
 
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I'm sincerely grateful that you talked to me. I value this, alot. Thank you so much.😭
And I'm sorry that you went through this as well. I truly hope that you're going well now. Wish you the best ❤
Of course 💗 I wish you the best as well, feel free to message me if you need to talk!
 
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You are not a bad or a disgusting person. You were a child that lacked context clues and knowledge of the world and people around you. You had no way to know, and you were just working with what you were given. My condolences go out to you.

Regarding the silence: I'm sure that most individuals here would sympathize-- or even empathize-- with you. It's just that people's personal traumas tend to be rather touchy subjects, and many users would rather stay quiet altogether instead of taking the risk of accidentally coming off as insensitive (the alternative is to deliver simple and low-effort platitudes, which are quite disliked here due to how hollow they come off).

Remember that this is a public forum. It is within your right to make your mind known, that's what it is made for.
 
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You are not a bad or a disgusting person. You were a child that lacked context clues and knowledge of the world and people around you. You had no way to know, and you were just working with what you were given. My condolences go out to you.

Regarding the silence: I'm sure that most individuals here would sympathize-- or even empathize-- with you. It's just that people's personal traumas tend to be rather touchy subjects, and many users would rather stay quiet altogether instead of taking the risk of accidentally coming off as insensitive (the alternative is to deliver simple and low-effort platitudes, which are quite disliked here due to how hollow they come off).

Remember that this is a public forum. It is within your right to make your mind known, that's what it is made for.
Thank you alot. I was really worried that I might be a moron, I got way too worried. Thank you for empathising, explaining and posting this.
I hope best things come to you ❤
 
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