Help Am I a bad person for this?

[lovelulu]

Me and my freinds have been having...problems with this one girls for a few months now. Recently the drama has started back up with her even though we've dropped her. Because of that, I sent a paragraph to her just cussing her out mostly, about how she's a lying, 2 faced bitch and that she needs to keep my freinds names out of her mouth. I dont really care if this was morally wrong or not due to all of the shit she's done to us, but i won't go into detail about that right now. Anyway, she was on the phone with our other freind, and she was crying about the paragraph I sent her. (She didnt respond, just opened it.) And to be honest, it gives me immense joy to know that I caused her to cry. It makes me happy i made someone feel what misery I feel every fucking day. But I know what I did and what I feel makes me a bad person. I know someone here will criticize me and im fine with that, I just want to know, am I terrible?

 

[doomedbynarrative]

I think it's human. When someone hurts you, sometimes it is our instinct to "slap back" so to speak. We live in an unfair and unjust world so sometimes when someone gets away with hurting you or they don't appear bothered by it, we tend to want to make them hurt just as much as they hurt us in an attempt to balance an invisible scale or get some form of justice.

 

[colorlesshue]

no, i think its human to piss off the people who hurt us