Venting all my friends went somewhere without me

[1br4h1m]

all my friends went to go see a movie without me. i talked to them before about going to see the movie together, but today they all went without me.
i feel subhuman.
i'm so awkward and weird. i don't know how to fix myself. i'm genuinely subhuman. i ruin everything.

 

[coolcow1289]

I know how you feel. I used to be in a friend group like that. They tolerated me but I basically had to invite myself to hang out with them.

Honestly being completely socially isolated feels less isolating than dealing with that.

And that doesn't make you subhuman. Maybe they're the ones who are subhuman! Normal healthy people are kind and compassionate and look out for their friends. You should call them out on it.

 

[1br4h1m]

I know how you feel. I used to be in a friend group like that. They tolerated me but I basically had to invite myself to hang out with them.

Honestly being completely socially isolated feels less isolating than dealing with that.

And that doesn't make you subhuman. Maybe they're the ones who are subhuman! Normal healthy people are kind and compassionate and look out for their friends. You should call them out on it.

we all went out to eat a few days ago but i was super awkward. i think that's why they decided not to invite me.

 

[milkytoast467]

I know how you feel. I used to be in a friend group like that. They tolerated me but I basically had to invite myself to hang out with them.

Honestly being completely socially isolated feels less isolating than dealing with that.

And that doesn't make you subhuman. Maybe they're the ones who are subhuman! Normal healthy people are kind and compassionate and look out for their friends. You should call them out on it.

Exactly. Humans are inherently selfish and cruel. I'll never understand how these pieces of trash can do such things to innocent people.

we all went out to eat a few days ago but i was super awkward. i think that's why they decided not to invite me.

I'm sorry you feel that way. I have social anxiety and it prevents me from having proper social interactions with others. Don't trust them, they'll only hurt you further, it's best to withdraw from interacting with them completely if you have nothing to do with them. You can message me if you want to vent or anything, but don't dehumanize yourself. I believe you're a good person at heart.

 

[Lamentice]

I'm sorry it's just fucking mean.. and no, being awkward or "weird" isn't deserving of being ostracized, and you're not subhuman. I 2nd coolcow; if humanity implies having empathy and love, then they lack it, makes them more subhuman imo.

 

[Enyan]

I'm so sorry. I feel that so much, had the same thing happen with my old friend group. Constantly excluded on purpose, yet I stuck around like a sad puppy. Once one of them didn't even know my name when they introduced us to some new people. We'd known each other for over 10 years at that point.

You're not subhuman. Some people are just assholes or not a good fit friends-wise.

 

[X-sanguinate86]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I fear you may need to find another friend group.

 

[rotthjärta]

They sound like shit, fuck those people. Has happened to me a lot, I usually let those relations dwindle out. I hope you find people who can accept you, theres some of those out there its harder when you are awkward or a bit weird but if you're lucky they'll find you.

 

[Bishop]

all my friends went to go see a movie without me. i talked to them before about going to see the movie together, but today they all went without me.
i feel subhuman.
i'm so awkward and weird. i don't know how to fix myself. i'm genuinely subhuman. i ruin everything.

So? Go watch a movie without them. Why be friends with people who don't want to be friends with you?

 

[SASU-KE]

So? Go watch a movie without them. Why be friends with people who don't want to be friends with you?

Seconded. I really enjoyed Project Hail Mary. Ironically, it's also about friendship.