• Hey Guest,

    We will never comply with any of OFCOM's demands or any other nations censorious demands for that matter. We will only follow the laws of the land of which our server is located, which is the US.

    Any demands for censorship or requests to comply with the law outside of the US will be promptly ignored.

    No foreign laws or pressure will make us comply with anti-censorship laws and we will protect the speech of our members, regardless of where they might live in the world. If that means being blocked in the UK, so be it. We would advise that any UK member gets a VPN to browse the site, or use TOR.

    However, today, we stand up these these governments that want to bully or censor this website.

    Fuck OFCOM, and fuck any media organization or group that think it's cool or fun to stalk or bully people that suffering in this world.

    Edit: We also wanted to address the veiled threats made against a staff member in the UK by the BBC in the news today. We are undeterred by any threats, intimination, by the BBC or by any other groups dedicated to doxxing and harassing our staff and members. Journalists from the BBC, CTV, Kansas Star, Daily Mail and many other outlets have continuiously ignored the fact that many of the people that they're interviewing (such as @leelfc84 on Twitter/X) and propping up are the same people posting addresses of staff members and our founders on social media. We show them proof of this and they ignore it and don't address it.They're all just as evil as each other, and should be treated accordingly. They do not care about the safety of our staff members, founders, or administrators, or even members, so why would they care about you?

    Now that we have your attention, journalists, will you ever address this? You've given these evil people interviews, and free press.

cait_sith

cait_sith

Brain rotted, often missing word
Apr 8, 2024
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"Accept the things you can't change" is a phrase I read often as a key stone of "getting better". The thing is I am not able to accept myself being mentally ill, or how people are, or how the world is, how existence is etc. I wonder how people are able to shrug their shoulders and accept life. Have you been successful with trying to accepting things you can't change? One thing this phrase doesn't touch on of course is that I can indeed change everything by erasing my perception of everything by not existing anymore. The world will basically disappear from my experience, so actually I changed everything as far as I am concerned, looks like didn't have to accept anything from the start.
 
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AbsurdAbyss

AbsurdAbyss

Lost, broken, empty, fragmented.
Mar 4, 2024
72
Neither acceptance nor rejection ever matters when ignorance is the answer to both.
 
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nihilistic_dragon

nihilistic_dragon

Student
Aug 6, 2024
183
There is a word for that now. Toxic positivity.
You don't have to accept shit if you don't want to.
 
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divinemistress36

divinemistress36

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Jan 1, 2024
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I cant accept suffering either . I admire people who can but I'm not one of them
 
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almost dead mota

almost dead mota

Tomorrow never comes
Aug 15, 2024
21
"Accept the things you can't change" is a phrase I read often as a key stone of "getting better". The thing is I am not able to accept myself being mentally ill, or how people are, or how the world is, how existence is etc. I wonder how people are able to shrug their shoulders and accept life. Have you been successful with trying to accepting things you can't change? One thing this phrase doesn't touch on of course is that I can indeed change everything by erasing my perception of everything by not existing anymore. The world will basically disappear from my experience, so actually I changed everything as far as I am concerned, looks like didn't have to accept anything from the start.
You can't give up your ego with your own ego. You can't transform yourself by doing, willing or just accepting things. You can only watch what happens, and see how everything and your idea of yourself unflods together
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
36,145
For me personally I find existence very unacceptable in general, I know I'm not meant to suffer in this cruel and painful existence that was always deeply undesirable in the first place for me, I'd never wish to be trapped here for decades longer just to be tormented dying in agony from very old age, the thought of such terrifies me.
 
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CantDoIt

Experienced
Jul 18, 2024
267
There are extremely tough people out there who go through extreme suffering and are able to keep going with positivity. However, that doesn't deserve me at all lmao.
 
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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
779
I think that, like with everything, that sentence doesn't apply to all things. I have had success with accepting things out of my control since that helped me focus on the things I had power over. So it's not so much: "accept how things are, job done", but more like: "accept the things that are out of your control and use the effort you were using on that, to change the things you have control over".
 
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