Help About telling old friends

[amberkakapo]

I had some old friends who were special to me that I wanted to notify about my suicide, just as some mental closure so I won't have to worry about their guilt during some sort of later realization. I'm just mainly worried that they'll think it's some cheap attempt to guilt them or reconnect. Any ideas?

 

[yes7777777]

a delayed message (one day or so) is much better

i think if you tell beloved ones they'll report it and it will ruin ur ctb

 

[amberkakapo]

a delayed message (one day or so) is much better

i think if you tell beloved ones they'll report it and it will ruin ur ctb

yeah that's true. i think it can easily become a last minute back out for help too.

 

[amberkakapo]

I had some old friends who were special to me that I wanted to notify about my suicide, just as some mental closure so I won't have to worry about their guilt during some sort of later realization. I'm just mainly worried that they'll think it's some cheap attempt to guilt them or reconnect. Any ideas?

Little update. I was thinking of doing it through maybe an account they wouldn't use as much, so the message is there but not necessarily "in their face ". immediately. I'm worried it'd still stir a lot of guilt for them though. I mean, it wouldn't matter if I was dead.