29M, 7 year dry spell, how to genuinely get laid/have confidence again in my life?

[Ulrich]

If you don't capitalize on your human potencial, if you live a life without thinking, if you don't rise above your animal insticts you're harmful to society

I think that many people live their lives in this way, but aren't necessarily detrimental to society. Production value is a material fact. A janitor still contributes to society, and thus cannot be seen to be harmful to it.
What does it mean to be harmful to society anyway?

 

[deathslament]

I can definitely see the traces of incel from this site's origins.