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puppybrained
Member
- Jul 15, 2024
- 11
22 years and i've done nothing, i just lost my only real friend of my entire life, haven't worked a job longer than a day 3 years ago, have never really been happy, i ruin all my relationships and friendships, i've given up on all my hobbies and interests. the only thing i have going for me is my boyfriend, and i keep fucking things up and he's getting more fed up by the day. i've been so miserable for so long, and i can't imagine a better life, nor do i really desire it. i really do feel like a pathetic loser. i'm going nowhere with my life, and i probably never will. i always end up back at square 1.
as pitiful and meaningless as my life is, i'm still too scared and lazy to do anything, which is just the kind of person i am about everything. i have my family and bf who i think would be devastated if i died, and part of me resents them for expecting me to live. i'm scared to fail and have to face them, i don't want to deal with the guilt and humiliation. i also naively want to have some big 'aha!' moment, where i finally get the desire to live and change myself. i don't know what it will take to get there, i don't think i ever will.
i don't know what the point of my post is. i'm tired of fighting with myself, and i wish i wasn't such a pussy. the inability to act just makes me feel worse about myself. does anyone else feel like they can't reach their final breaking point, despite everything?
as pitiful and meaningless as my life is, i'm still too scared and lazy to do anything, which is just the kind of person i am about everything. i have my family and bf who i think would be devastated if i died, and part of me resents them for expecting me to live. i'm scared to fail and have to face them, i don't want to deal with the guilt and humiliation. i also naively want to have some big 'aha!' moment, where i finally get the desire to live and change myself. i don't know what it will take to get there, i don't think i ever will.
i don't know what the point of my post is. i'm tired of fighting with myself, and i wish i wasn't such a pussy. the inability to act just makes me feel worse about myself. does anyone else feel like they can't reach their final breaking point, despite everything?