Discussion 2 sucidals is good match?

[Whiskeyjames]

Just a hypothetical question, would 2 sucidals/ having suicidal thoughts poeple be a good match?? Could suicidal be passed by genes? It is a bad move for the next generation/humanity?

 

[Kyrok]

Do not have children. Why bring anyone into this shit.

 

[stellabelle]

Do not have children. Why bring anyone into this shit.

That's fair to say.

Just a hypothetical question, would 2 sucidals/ having suicidal thoughts poeple be a good match?? Could suicidal be passed by genes? It is a bad move for the next generation/humanity?

They might be a decent match because they understand the intense feelings. They say some mental health issues are genetic, so this is sort of a tricky one to answer. Probably not good for the future.

 

[Whiskeyjames]

That's fair to say.


They might be a decent match because they understand the intense feelings. They say some mental health issues are genetic, so this is sort of a tricky one to answer. Probably not good for the future.

Word!! That's what I thought too. It is pointless to explain to any regular people as they will never understand unless you too turn them to suicidal.

 

[Whiskeyjames]

Do not have children. Why bring anyone into this shit.

The only reason not having child is afrading of passing down bad genes... If they are fine they will find a way to have a good life. Of course, the richer the better.. if I'm poor I won't consider that at all.

 

[21Neberg]

Though being suicidal obviously isn't a good thing, I think that two people who are both suicidal and in a relationship together could really help each other by really understanding each other. I have a couple of friends, yet I still mention my lonely feelings sometimes since they would never understand suicidal feelings, self harm etc.

 

[Firecaste]

I don't think it's a good pairing. Depressed and suicidal mindsets place alot of emotional pressure on your partner, they need to be able to manage that. can't have both people be emotionally volatile and ready to collapse. Someone has to be the 'rock' let alone bringing kids into it.

 

[Armadillo]

Could suicidal be passed by genes? It is a bad move for the next generation/humanity?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2440417/

Bad idea.
Do not gamble with the wellbeing of unborn humans by risking to put your offspring in a situation maybe worse than the one you are already into.

 

[Whiskeyjames]

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2440417/

Bad idea.
Do not gamble with the wellbeing of unborn humans by risking to put your offspring in a situation maybe worse than the one you are already into.

OMG this is really scary... Yep this is definitely not something to mess with

 

[Whiskeyjames]

I don't think it's a good pairing. Depressed and suicidal mindsets place alot of emotional pressure on your partner, they need to be able to manage that. can't have both people be emotionally volatile and ready to collapse. Someone has to be the 'rock' let alone bringing kids into it.

That's what most typical successful relationship works... But still it all comes down to the individuals...

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

I mean, I get on well with @Smilla and it helps that she's cute. Ctb prep always seem to mess up our child-raising plans though.

 

[StreamingMySuicide]

Do not have children. Why bring anyone into this shit.

I got a vasectomy for this reason hahahahhahha

 

[Aesthler]

I agree about not having a kid but just having a life partner I'd say it could work. Non suicidal couples have their own sets of ups and downs at least with two suicidals it's a little romantic to end life in each other's arms.

 

[stellabelle]

I mean, I get on well with @Smilla and it helps that she's cute. Ctb prep always seem to mess up our child-raising plans though.

Don't feel bad, @Aesthler rejected our twins, now I'm doing it alone with @Pineapplecrown

 

[Smilla]

I mean, I get on well with @Smilla and it helps that she's cute. Ctb prep always seem to mess up our child-raising plans though.

Thanks.

I'm an antinatalist anyway.

 

[Memento Mori]

Do not have children. Why bring anyone into this shit.

Just adopt one if u like to have one

But i fear in future we'll have test tube kids where u can choose eye color, sexuality, penis length n stuff. o.O


Two suicidals may match, may not match, may build up each other, depends on why you're suicidal. As long as you don't lose your kindness don't worry.

 

[wiIIow]

Just a hypothetical question, would 2 sucidals/ having suicidal thoughts poeple be a good match?? Could suicidal be passed by genes? It is a bad move for the next generation/humanity?

obviously I can't speak for every situation, but my current setup works out very well for me. My partner and I have very similar issues and our mental illnesses manifest themselves in a similar manner, so that we're able to identify when the other is having problems and understand exactly how to help. We both have suicidal thoughts/ideation which we're able to openly express to eachother, and we both have attempts/hospitalizations under our belts. I'd say it's the most ideal situation we could hope for in this miserable existence

That being said I would never have children, and have known this since I was 13 or so. Besides the fact that my guy is almost 20 years my senior and already has a child nearing adulthood, combining these issues into a brand new human seems like an overall terrible idea. For the record, his kid is the result of two very sick people reproducing, and at 16 yrs old she already has a shitload of problems that have, and will be, incredibly challenging for her to deal with.

But again, I can't speak for every situation out there, this is only my personal experience and observation.