Venting Yet another pro-life rant

[Help_Me]

First of all, sorry for my stupid posts everyone. Probably some of you remember a story of my divorced friend, who met a new chick doing absolutely nothing. So, he is a pro-lifer now ! He is just lucky and that's all. Now he thinks everybody around should be positive only because he is in love again. Today he PM'ed me and was mocking like "hey, i see you wont play ForHonor (some popular PC game. idk what is that excatly) with me today, like usualy" . I asked him to stop asking such kind of questions as i am exhausted and kinda sad, and need to stay alone just for a while. Yet, i was ready to talk with him on skype or via phone. I had a terrible day... i just don't want to play some games... And he's like "ok, as you wish. I'm gone". wtf was that ? Am i supposed to be cheerful 24/7 ? Just for you to know : i have a full-time job + studying in university almost every single day and problems with my gf. I just said i can't play right now. His behavior was like " you know buddy, PC games is the only thing we have in common". We know each other for almost 8 years and he is gone)) I understood every single case when he was upset with his ex-wife problems. Why can't i just get the same ? His new love (i am pretty sure it will end up shortly) makes him INSANE. I am 100% sure i am using the correct word. He is just insane. He literally thinks everyone around him should be as happy as him for no reason. I did not insult him or said anything offensive at all. .. He is a valuable friend... This life just literally wants me dead solid !

 

[gingerplum]

That's disappointing, I am sorry your friend isn't more understanding just because his circumstances have changed.

I think of love as a neurochemical mind fuck. Falling in love creates a kind of transient euphoria that changes your perspective. Your friend is wearing rose colored glasses right now, and everything is tinted with happiness.

It's almost like your friend is on a manic bender... he's not himself. It won't last forever. Hopefully he'll come around and see how insensitive he's being right now.

 

[Johnnythefox]

He's obviously in the honeymoon period, that doesn't last long though.