Venting yet another post from an ugly and lonely guy

[that_guy2611]

blah blah you've heard it all before. I'm an ugly male with no redeemable qualities. got no game or good looks. no interesting hobbies.
man i just want some validation and a bit of intimacy without hearing 'just b urself' or 'it's the inside that counts' or 'luv urself first' .
I see people who treat other's like shit and nobody ever says 'hey he treats others like shit but boy does he love himself and that's why I love him/attracted to him'.
also would be nice to state the obvious that nobody cares about us men without being called an incel or misogynist. I have nothing against women, i don't blame them for consistently not being interesting in me or people like myself. It's a market, and the poor goods doesn't get chosen. I can't consistently 'love myself' when it's clear that i'd be delusional in thinking there's anything to like. yeah i'm shy as fuck but let's not pretend shy people aren't in relationships. I fucking hate everything. just shy of being 30 years old i shouldn't be in this place, i should be getting married or living with a spouse/gf right now. man it hurts seeing a young coworker in her early 20's already getting married. wtf dude ? I mean good for her but damn I'm light years behind.

TL:DR don't read any of this shit I'm just in a bad place (always have been lol)

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

US elected trump who is bad guy archetype who literally married a prostitute

The Americans deserve to suffer forever for what they have done in the world. Climate destroying consumerism, evil marketing tactics , illegal oil wars , etc. Their flesh should be charred and their burned ashes spread around the earth

And no matter what any "oo rah USA number one " types will say, Donald Rumsfeld is dead forever . He can never come back and slaughter an Iraqi child again

 

[jimmy7754]

US elected trump who is bad guy archetype who literally married a prostitute

The Americans deserve to suffer forever for what they have done in the world. Climate destroying consumerism, evil marketing tactics , illegal oil wars , etc. Their flesh should be charred and their burned ashes spread around the earth

And no matter what any "oo rah USA number one " types will say, Donald Rumsfeld is dead forever . He can never come back and slaughter an Iraqi child again

Are you American?

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

US elected trump who is bad guy archetype who literally married a prostitute

Are you American?

Yes

Ive hated many aspects of my country from a young age

It's not the worst place to live but the United States government is a moral monster and so are most of its people

 

[Superdeterminist]

Same here. Just about done with daydreaming over what will probably never come. And if it came now that would be nice, but it's already been far too long...Just let me out of this game.

 

[Nolan96]

Don't let yourself be dismissed or put down by terms like "incel" or "misogynist".
You know if you treat other people with kindness and understanding or not.
That's all that matters. Don't give in to the little tribes of internet egotists.
I know what it feels like to feel far behind in certain ways.
I wish you eventual companionship, or at least peace in solitude.

 

[artificial_ineptness]

This sort of existence sucks ass, and your suffering is valid.

Wait, no, sorry, I meant: What do you mean you don't like empty platitudes that just alienate you and minimize your suffering?!?! Sweaty, I think you're long overdue some showers and personality work. Then you'll be swimming in pussy. Just trust me.

 

[isitover010]

US elected trump who is bad guy archetype who literally married a prostitute

The Americans deserve to suffer forever for what they have done in the world. Climate destroying consumerism, evil marketing tactics , illegal oil wars , etc. Their flesh should be charred and their burned ashes spread around the earth

And no matter what any "oo rah USA number one " types will say, Donald Rumsfeld is dead forever . He can never come back and slaughter an Iraqi child again

The US is disgusting. I'm unfortunately American, I left. And i hate that hypocritical shithole country with all of my heart and soul. I will never step foot there again.

The US is disgusting. I'm unfortunately American, I left. And i hate that hypocritical shithole country with all of my heart and soul. I will never step foot there again.

I do deserve to die because i'm American. Please just tell me the way and i will sacrifice myself as a first step.
I just want to die.
I don't want to get better, I just want to die
i just want to be dead

 

[OldDrummer]

man it hurts seeing a young coworker in her early 20's already getting married. wtf dude ? I mean good for her but damn I'm light years behind.

Dude! My first marriage was at 39! Who the f*ck gets married in their early 20's these days?

First off, don't judge yourself in relation to others. Happiness is subjective, not objective.

Are you physically deformed in any way? Why do you hate how you look?

 

[lili]

Sorry your going through that.

I also think in my case I never make any first moves. I don't do anything. Even if I find someone interesting I don't do anything to get their attention. So I only get with people that make a move to me or are direct. Because I also don't understand or can't recognize indirect flirtation. Mostly because if my problems.

I think it's because of how I was raised with my gender stereotype maybe that they taught me as a girl to never make the first move. To always wait for the guy. And for me even if I want to make the first move and I don't care about that, i think it's ingrained in me at this point. The fear of getting rejected is so strong that I don't even dare make any moves.

So that is also another factor that might come into play. I think this has affected me too in the sense that I am bisexual and have only been with one woman, but I can't make any first moves so even if I want to engage with other women I don't have the ability to flirt or make moves at all.

Just sharing this to bring into perspective for you just in case.

 

[Pain In The Ass]

damn I'm light years behind

You're also light years behind Elon Musk. Why the fuck have you not built a spaceship yet, you loser?! Maybe that woman's husband will cheat on her and then she'll find out, so he'll kill her with a hammer and bury her in the woods, then YOU won't be such a loser because HER life didn't go well! See what I mean? If you judge your life by comparing it to others lives, you will always feel like a loser.

Fuck everyone else and what they're doing - what do YOU value?

One of the people I look up to more than any other, is Erik Satie, who had one girlfriend in his teens, and never had another relationship, then spent the next 30 years writing piano music that wasn't appreciated until way after he was dead and gone - he spent his life sat in his rented room, sawing up furniture for fire wood to keep warm, just him, a bed and a piano, struggling with his dilemma; should I sell out and write music I know people will like and pay me for, or should I follow my intuition and conscience, and focus on groundbreaking music that no one likes, and remain poor - he chose the latter, and died young, lonely and poor, of alcoholism - but he fucking lived HIS LIFE, not someone else's! And that's why he's a fucking hero to me.

 

[Weebster]

US elected trump who is bad guy archetype who literally married a prostitute

The Americans deserve to suffer forever for what they have done in the world. Climate destroying consumerism, evil marketing tactics , illegal oil wars , etc. Their flesh should be charred and their burned ashes spread around the earth

And no matter what any "oo rah USA number one " types will say, Donald Rumsfeld is dead forever . He can never come back and slaughter an Iraqi child again

You drank the entire Kool Aid man. Killer

 

[NothingElseMatters]

i know how you're feeling. i've seen so many men making beautiful girls falling in love with them, and when i see them, they're ugly and an horrible human being. we won't ever understand that. maybe we were meant to suffer anyway.