hopelessdreams
life and its opposite
- Mar 1, 2022
- 176
i see a lot of people here saying that having kids to deal with your own suffering is selfish and not a good idea. i completely agree. i don't want any kids either. but it got me thinking: what about adopting a kid that's already been brought into this world?
those kids all have a reason for being left without parents to care for them. i think if you would adopt one (say you're still alive) you'd help them with their own suffering. a lot of them have similar problems as us (childhood trauma. attachment issues etcetera).
maybe the fact that you're helping someone build a life that you dont want to live and giving the opportunity to do so will give you a sense of purpose. a sense of leaving something great behind when you're gone. what do y'all think? would you ever adopt a kid?
those kids all have a reason for being left without parents to care for them. i think if you would adopt one (say you're still alive) you'd help them with their own suffering. a lot of them have similar problems as us (childhood trauma. attachment issues etcetera).
maybe the fact that you're helping someone build a life that you dont want to live and giving the opportunity to do so will give you a sense of purpose. a sense of leaving something great behind when you're gone. what do y'all think? would you ever adopt a kid?