Nemaki Arber
Lost soul & chat lurker
- Mar 24, 2023
- 36
I won't lie it just seems so pointless, since the beginning of my life I've been given a shit hand, I'm 27nb (any pronouns, biologically a woman) from growing in an abusive household, severe social difficulties to getting involved with the wrong people leaving me traumatized and wary of people in general.
It seems anytime I try to get better as a person, someone wants to hinder my progress. It seems I'm not allowed to have made mistakes despite that I grew up severely abused, had my emotions dismissed, was molested as a child, etc, but whatever.
Anytime I make new friends or join a new group , I get betrayed somehow or maybe its the trauma? I don't know, but I just can't seem to heal from it
But what's the point of trying to be a better person if everyone are always going to see you as this toxic asshole, even if you haven't shown any toxic behaviour in years, but I also don't want to be a bad person, that's just not who I am. Its just that hopeless I guess
It seems anytime I try to get better as a person, someone wants to hinder my progress. It seems I'm not allowed to have made mistakes despite that I grew up severely abused, had my emotions dismissed, was molested as a child, etc, but whatever.
Anytime I make new friends or join a new group , I get betrayed somehow or maybe its the trauma? I don't know, but I just can't seem to heal from it
But what's the point of trying to be a better person if everyone are always going to see you as this toxic asshole, even if you haven't shown any toxic behaviour in years, but I also don't want to be a bad person, that's just not who I am. Its just that hopeless I guess