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Brillet

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May 26, 2020
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Hi. So I see a lot of posts here from people looking for a painless way to pass away. TW but I would like to do it by cutting my wrist and OD. I'm a self harmer so maybe that's why I don't mind my suicide to be painful. Why do you want yours to be painless?
 
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Didymus

Didymus

Clutching at invisible straws
Dec 11, 2018
348
Because I don't like pain. It's as simple as that
 
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x-Ace-x

Experienced
Aug 20, 2019
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I'm also a cutter and some pain is fine, that's the main reason of cutting for me but I don't like when it's too much.
 
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PrettyMoose

PrettyMoose

Eat my arse, Pain&Sh*tness & Mindf*ckitation Grift
Mar 1, 2020
280
Less pain = more chance to overcome survival instinct
 
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KLUF

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Jun 16, 2020
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If I liked pain and suffering I'd want to live and would not come here :pfff:
 
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Close_to_freedom

Close_to_freedom

Why the long face? Cause I don’t wanna live here.
May 19, 2020
418
Cutting your wrist is not like the movies. It's not painless. You'd have to cut through tendons which would destroy the use of your hand if you survive. Then you'd have to keep digging until you hit the artery.
 
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TStorm

TStorm

Fading Light
Mar 18, 2020
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I SH but I don't think that CTB by wrist cutting would be a fun way to go. I don't think I could do it honestly. Besides that I don't care if my end is painful or not. Sometimes I hope it will be because I feel like I should suffer. And I mean once I'm dead my suffering will be done forever, so I dont mind if it hurts some at the end.
 
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Matthias_k

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Apr 18, 2020
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Pain = bad in my book. And totally unnecessary.
 
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Emily123

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May 28, 2019
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i just want to finish the pain in my life as painless/fast as possible
 
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SpottedPanda

SpottedPanda

I'm all about coffee and cigarettes
Jul 24, 2019
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Because, as it's been hilariously put, pain = bad.

I'm no closer to cutting my wrists as I am to bashing my head against a brick wall.

Of all human suffering, pain is probably the worst thing to endure.

Self harm baffles me. I'm simply not wired for pain. I wouldn't even join the Jackass troupe for a million pounds.

I've lived with a self harmer, never understood why someone would volunteer for pain. A different mindset, I suppose.
 
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Iamamistake

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Jun 2, 2020
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Hi. So I see a lot of posts here from people looking for a painless way to pass away. TW but I would like to do it by cutting my wrist and OD. I'm a self harmer so maybe that's why I don't mind my suicide to be painful. Why do you want yours to be painless?

cuz maybe I'm scared of pain. I ain't sure about why but want a painless death.
 
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AnxietyAttack44

I just wanna go to my husband already.
Jun 5, 2020
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Some pain is tolerable bit i want it done really quick instead. Cutting could end up very slow. Just want it quick, thats all
 
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FreddieQuell

FreddieQuell

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Apr 14, 2020
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One of the reasons I'd like to go with minimal pain is to comfort those left behind - as in at least he died peacefully. Also, I feel I can overcome SI much easier with methods that are relatively peaceful.
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
4,704
I don't mind some pain if I know it's going to end pretty soon and nothing will be expected of me at the end of it, I hope.
 
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Brillet

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May 26, 2020
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Cutting your wrist is not like the movies. It's not painless. You'd have to cut through tendons which would destroy the use of your hand if you survive. Then you'd have to keep digging until you hit the artery.
I know, I know. I've already tried it. Saw my tendons etc, but I don't think you have to cut through them, you just have to cut vertically.
Thank you all for your answers.
 
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Close_to_freedom

Close_to_freedom

Why the long face? Cause I don’t wanna live here.
May 19, 2020
418
I know, I know. I've already tried it. Saw my tendons etc, but I don't think you have to cut through them, you just have to cut vertically.
Thank you all for your answers.
That's terrifying.
 
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lostangel

lostangel

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Mar 22, 2019
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The pain will just be another obstacle in my way. I don't want to deal with SI and pain at the same time.
 
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Deleted member 17949

Visionary
May 9, 2020
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We're designed to avoid pain. The more pain is involved the more willpower you need to do it, and I am pretty weak willed. Less pain = easier for me
 
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woxihuanni

woxihuanni

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Aug 19, 2019
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Why is this a question? Just because somebody doesn't have any other way out than death doesn't mean they are self-harmers, and self-harming doesn't mean you are fine with any amount of pain. Is it boredom or a fantasy bubble that recently makes really weird questions come up on the boards, I don't know.
 
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Bct

Bct

Disqualified from Being Human
Apr 20, 2020
419
I can endure some pain, but not too much, so SN is still an ideal method for me. Other methods like jumping or cutting myself are too scary for me, considering if they fail I'll be in a worse state yet still alive.
 
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Cosmiq

Cosmiq

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May 7, 2020
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I think it's because many are already enduring some other form of pain and want some peace at the end. I want to jump, and while I'm confident that I'll die I'm not completely sure that I'll die instantly or that I won't feel anything and I'm okay with that. I don't need it to be completely painless, but I'm also not about to go set myself on fire, that's just unnecessary suffering on top of suffering. Alleviating a little bit of it is fine for me, but I don't think it's odd that some would want to avoid it completely if they could.
 
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Brillet

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May 26, 2020
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Why is this a question? Just because somebody doesn't have any other way out than death doesn't mean they are self-harmers, and self-harming doesn't mean you are fine with any amount of pain. Is it boredom or a fantasy bubble that recently makes really weird questions come up on the boards, I don't know.
It's not boredom, I was just curious. I'm not assuming that everyone here is a self harmer. I'm so sorry if I offended you somehow. I didn't mean to
 
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Dead beat dad

Dead beat dad

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Mar 5, 2019
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Hi. So I see a lot of posts here from people looking for a painless way to pass away. TW but I would like to do it by cutting my wrist and OD. I'm a self harmer so maybe that's why I don't mind my suicide to be painful. Why do you want yours to be painless?
I think for some people they have endured a limit of physical, emotional, mental pain and are just looking for relief from that without adding to it.
I love the idea of drinking the potion on a rainy day and snuggling down for one last time and softly drifting away... This idea for some is the opposite of the chaos and pain they live daily.
Part of me also believes that I'm and intrinsically awful person and should have the death I deserve not the one I need. Therefore the concept of staring down a filthy needle in some squalid shit hole in my soiled rags, freezing to the bone, with white noise blaring at ear breaking volume also calls to me...
Go figure.
Peace to you friend.
DBD
 
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dysfunctional

dysfunctional

Arcanist
Oct 26, 2018
459
Because I just want my suffering to end. Not to suffer more.
 
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pleasethistime

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Jun 25, 2018
256
The more pain the more fear and fail
 
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woxihuanni

Illuminated
Aug 19, 2019
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It's not boredom, I was just curious. I'm not assuming that everyone here is a self harmer. I'm so sorry if I offended you somehow. I didn't mean to

No need to apologise! I didn't mean to be so cranky either.
 
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mediocre

trapped here
Nov 9, 2019
1,443
I suffer so much pain already it would be nice to not suffer more of it in my last moments.
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
4,704
It's a question that interests me too. A lot of people seem to assume everyone wants a painless death, but that's plainly not true, and there are nuances to it too.

As I said I don't mind some pain, but I mean pain that sets in once I've done my part, like swallowing whatever or letting a rope tighten. I know I don't have the discipline to proceed with actively hurting myself.
 
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TimeToBiteTheDust

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Nov 7, 2019
2,321
Because it would be great to end a painful life with a painless death. Everyone should have the right to a painless death.
 
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WarRunner

WarRunner

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Jun 3, 2020
29
Because pain is what I experience all the time.
 
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