Why do some people feel the need to ctb asap?

[Ambivalent1]

Why the urgency?

 

[juliano2001]

Fear bad things might happen.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I guess they've had as much as they can take. There are all sorts of situations represented here. Some people have chronic illness- I'd want out asap if I was in pain every day. Some are facing homelessness or redundacy or bankrupy. I think a lot of people simply want out before their circumstances get worse. Or- their lives are too painful to cope with already.

 

[soonatpeace777888]

Because I have had about enough. I don't WANT to live anymore. My brain is eating my alive and it wont stop. I have a noose set up in the woods for this reason but it keeps raining so It keeps fucking me up. I really want the gun though, thats my ideal method. Hopefully I can last long enough to save up for the gun.

 

[FuneralCry]

To escape from suffering. Existence truly is so hellish and there is simply no limit as to how much one can be tortured in this world, I believe that in many cases people are very desperate as they know that they will suffer much more if they don't find a way to instantly leave.

 

[love_peep]

Personally, in my case, I won't be able to hold out for another week or two, because I'm very tired of all this. There is no point in continuing to try to do something in this life, there are no such people for whom you can live. I sincerely hope that my sn will arrive tomorrow and I will end all this shit in the next few days. And to be honest, there is no hope that something will work out, I can't even get out of bed especially because of antidepressants, I sleep a lot and get tired quickly, so I can't physically work. And the money is running out in general without an exit situation that I'm already tired of, to be honest. I tried everything from psychologists and antidepressants with tranquilizers to a psychiatric hospital and none of this helped me every day my brain is going crazy and degrades more and more, I'm tired of it. I know that life can be wonderful and I had experience, but bitch, I thought I was going to be a linguist, and fuck it, because I had suicidal depression. to be honest, I have already resigned myself to my fate and it makes no further sense to try to fix something, so unfortunately I will leave this forum next week

 

[CW36]

Why wait? Your question holds no logic.

 

[Ambivalent1]

Why wait? No logic in your question.

You've already waited a week at least. With your logic, people should be on this site for only a day at the most to pick a method

 

[CW36]

You've already waited a week at least. With your logic, people should be on this site for only a day at the most to pick a method

You're clearly without reason. You might stay here forever, but others want out. That can be any day they choose. There's a million reasons why people are in a rush or they're prepared to wait. Don't judge other people.

 

[_Alfarooq_]

Why the urgency?

Because I'm scared about people finding out that I'm a failure

 

[day]

People can be trapped and only have small windows. People may want to do it before something happens to them. People just want out and fast.

There's plenty of reasons why. I wish I could go right now myself. I'm tired of the trauma effecting me everyday and being scared of the world. I'm just so exhausted from the suffering this grotesque world has given me.

 

[Ambivalent1]

You're clearly without reason. You might stay here forever, but others want out. That can be any day they choose. There's a million reasons why people are in a rush or they're prepared to wait. Don't judge other people.

Where was i judging? I was just asking a question. Then you act defensively by insulting me by saying my question is without logic and now you do it again. You act like you're this pinnacle of logic and reason, and it's laughable.

 

[UKscotty]

Why not be urgent? Life is pointless anyway.

Once we are gone, we are forgotten in a short time.

 

[CW36]

Where was i judging? I was just asking a question. Then you act defensively by insulting me by saying my question is without logic and now you do it again. You act like you're this pinnacle of logic and reason, and it's laughable.

''You've already waited a week'' Didn't realise you're keeping tabs on everyone. What insult? You asked a poorly worded and insensitive question, end of. Think before you speak.

 

[Ambivalent1]

''You've already waited a week'' Didn't realise you're keeping tabs on everyone. What insult? You asked a poorly worded and insensitive question, end of. Think before you speak.

Keeping tabs? You joined this site a week ago. Says so by your screen name. My question is fine. You're oversensitive and purposely look to be offended like so many people nowadays.

 

[CW36]

Keeping tabs? You joined this site a week ago. Says so by your screen name. My question is fine. You're oversensitive and purposely look to be offended like so many people nowadays.

Oversensitive? Interesting phrase. Go look up sensitivity and see it it's inherited or learned. I'm sorry you didn't get the attention you needed the first time round, but there's better ways to go about it. I'm not wasting any more time on you.

 

[suicidaleeyore]

When my MH gets into a really bad state I feel a huge sense of urgency. For me I have been suffering mentally for so long there comes times where I genuinely feel I cannot take the suffering anymore and need out asap. One of the medications I take stabilises my mood and suicidal thoughts a bit. Depression and suicidal thoughts are still there but not as urgent. The past few months I've spent hours a day researching/thinking about suicide, I am desperate to leave but not till it's set up right. But when I'm ready in the days leading up to it I will stop taking my meds to bring on the sense of urgency that will help me complete it.
Also it's really common with people with certain psychiatric disorders such as BPD to flip from one extreme to another hence the urgency in some people with that disorder

 

[Praestat_Mori]

Imo ctb is only possible if someone is in a state of total desperation and hopelessness. Fear of further problems that makes life even worse. Fear of having to endure more suffering and many other things that make life unbearable.

 

[ihatelife0]

Before things gets worse

 

[Ambivalent1]

Oversensitive? Interesting phrase. Go look up sensitivity and see it it's inherited or learned. I'm sorry you didn't get the attention you needed the first time round, but there's better ways to go about it. I'm not wasting any more time on you.

I was the one wasting time on you. You project a lot. I can tell. You, not me, didn't get the right amount of attention.