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Rishi Forbes Das
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- Sep 19, 2024
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I hate to burst your bubble, but if "motherhood" was automatically synonymous with "caring about offspring" there would be a lot less people here. It takes a person to shit out a child, it takes a good person to care about the child. The former is a much bigger group than the latter.You have to give people a reason to care for you. Like how your mother has one, because you're her child.
She gave birth to you. She is the only person obligated to care. 99% percent of the people in your life will only care when they need something from you.
I relate to this so much. I wish my mother cared and if reincarnation is real all I want is to be reincarnated with a mom that stays. Mine gave me up at 5 and now as a teacher when I see kindergartners I'm just like "damn was I just that much of an ugly and unloveable child?" It's even worse when I hear of mothers abusing their kids. I'm so sorry for your painMy mum didn't even care, she tried to kill me I dunno how many times, and she got away with it. I wish my mum cared about me, I wish she loved me. I'd give anything to have that.
Abused me throughout my life, from before birth. I was born very early because she tried to kill me. I wish she had succeeded.
I can't wait to be at peace.
The sad truthShe gave birth to you. She is the only person obligated to care. 99% percent of the people in your life will only care when they need something from you.
well mine still doesnt so does that mean i pulled a secret rare like pokemon ?She gave birth to you. She is the only person obligated to care. 99% percent of the people in your life will only care when they need something from you.
Gotta catch 'em all.well mine still doesnt so does that mean i pulled a secret rare like pokemon ?
You've got to get a specific Pokemon badge for the pokemon to listen. /swell mine still doesnt so does that mean i pulled a secret rare like pokemon ?
Yeah my mother doesn't give a shit neither does anyone else in my family. Obligated to care isn't a thing.She gave birth to you. She is the only person obligated to care. 99% percent of the people in your life will only care when they need something from you.
All parents are obligated to. Whether they choose to honor that obligation is a different story.Yeah my mother doesn't give a shit neither does anyone else in my family. Obligated to care isn't a thing.
Yes, relationships are transactional there is no unconditonal loveNo one gives a shit about you
You ask yourself, "Why nobody gives a damn about me?" I have the answer. No one cares about you. It's not personal. It's just human nature.
This applies to everything you need or want. It applies to all the people in your life, including your parents and your family.
No one cares what you want
Your boss doesn't give a shit if you come to work. He cares if you make his job more difficult because of your absence, but he doesn't REALLY care what happens to you.
It's not malicious. He's just got his own shit to worry about. So he doesn't give a shit about you.
That girl you want to date doesn't care that you can't get her off your mind. The flu isn't out to get you. It just took an opportunity to do what it's supposed to do. It doesn't give a shit about you.
People care about themselves and how a situation will increase what's valuable to them. If you understand that sentence, you'll never have a problem again.
It's so important that I'll write it again, phrased differently, and in bold letters. No one gives a shit about you unless there's something in it for them.
That's ok, because you don't really care what they think either.
It's the same with that girl you're mentally undressing. She doesn't give a shit that you think she's sexy. That's not gonna make her want to date you.
What's in it for her? Are you good-looking? Are you interesting? Do you have money and status? What do you bring to the table that's valuable to her?
If you want more from the world, you have to give more to the world. The world doesn't owe you shit. No amount of sulking or protesting will ever change this.
Life isn't fair. Well actually, it is fair because it's unfair to everyone.
ah yes the be a living embodiment of god badge i havent got to that gym yetYou've got to get a specific Pokemon badge for the pokemon to listen. /s