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itsalittlecold
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- Jun 7, 2024
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I'm in the U.K and I've wondered for years now, if there is a way to prevent my family been responsible for the finances of my funeral.
The fact we have to live through life paying taxes, bills etc and have an expense like a funeral at the end sickens me. I wish I had to opportunity or was in the position to pay for my own funeral.
Me & my family are broke, we get left with huge bills from our parents and knowing there is a chance they'll have to foot the bill for me, is really holding me back!
I've tried 'planting the seed' numerous times to them about my beliefs in not wanting a funeral or a sending off. My death shouldn't be about been sad or 'sending off' it shouldn't be a worry financially, I want my life to be celebrated & I want to be remembered for who I was and how I tried making others happy, laugh and feel comfy in this oh-so uncomfortable world.
Does anyone know or have experience with this? If I could convince my family to never 'claim' me, would they be chased for the costs regardless?
if they insist on having a 'send off' for me, what would be a more appropriate way, to satisfy us both?
Money is the issue & I don't believe anyone should have to pay for deaths of any kind.
Thanks
The fact we have to live through life paying taxes, bills etc and have an expense like a funeral at the end sickens me. I wish I had to opportunity or was in the position to pay for my own funeral.
Me & my family are broke, we get left with huge bills from our parents and knowing there is a chance they'll have to foot the bill for me, is really holding me back!
I've tried 'planting the seed' numerous times to them about my beliefs in not wanting a funeral or a sending off. My death shouldn't be about been sad or 'sending off' it shouldn't be a worry financially, I want my life to be celebrated & I want to be remembered for who I was and how I tried making others happy, laugh and feel comfy in this oh-so uncomfortable world.
Does anyone know or have experience with this? If I could convince my family to never 'claim' me, would they be chased for the costs regardless?
if they insist on having a 'send off' for me, what would be a more appropriate way, to satisfy us both?
Money is the issue & I don't believe anyone should have to pay for deaths of any kind.
Thanks