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noname223
Angelic
- Aug 18, 2020
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I know maybe one would say in an ideal world there was no need for suicide forums because often people who endure a lot of pain consult them. But I don't mean that with this question.
I know many feel uncomfortable when they see there are currently 208 members online and 557 guests. Not sure what I shall think about it. I like it when people say that my threads can comfort or distract them. So I like when people read them.
On the other hand I am often quite anxious about doxxing and the more people are in the forum the more likely it gets someone can identify you. However I think rationally this is quite unlikely. I am glad there are not that many people in this forum with my nationality.
So for the people who feel uncomfortable about the number of visitors which number would be fine for you? Or is it rather the ratio between guests or members which makes you nervous? Admittedly this also applies to me. So many people read the stuff I write but I will never get a grasp of their consciousness.
Of course it is tragic and horrible that so many people have to suffer in such an unfair way. However on the other hand the fact that we are a virutal crowd makes it easier to find someone to who one can relate.
I think most of us did not feel comfortable after all the reportings about this forum and how much attention it got. It feels less privately since. On the other hand I don't feel very important. At least not on the internet. There is such a mass of people. My importance is so tiny when I think about all the people in the world. I read there are coming 2 new humans every second into the world. I think in this calculation the people who die are already substracted.
With which amount of people would you feel the most comfortable?
I know many feel uncomfortable when they see there are currently 208 members online and 557 guests. Not sure what I shall think about it. I like it when people say that my threads can comfort or distract them. So I like when people read them.
On the other hand I am often quite anxious about doxxing and the more people are in the forum the more likely it gets someone can identify you. However I think rationally this is quite unlikely. I am glad there are not that many people in this forum with my nationality.
So for the people who feel uncomfortable about the number of visitors which number would be fine for you? Or is it rather the ratio between guests or members which makes you nervous? Admittedly this also applies to me. So many people read the stuff I write but I will never get a grasp of their consciousness.
Of course it is tragic and horrible that so many people have to suffer in such an unfair way. However on the other hand the fact that we are a virutal crowd makes it easier to find someone to who one can relate.
I think most of us did not feel comfortable after all the reportings about this forum and how much attention it got. It feels less privately since. On the other hand I don't feel very important. At least not on the internet. There is such a mass of people. My importance is so tiny when I think about all the people in the world. I read there are coming 2 new humans every second into the world. I think in this calculation the people who die are already substracted.
With which amount of people would you feel the most comfortable?