Which role would you rather prefer in a relationship?

  • "Be as her man."

    Votes: 4 57.1%
  • "Be as his sex."

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Total voters
    7
Mirrory Me

Mirrory Me

"More then your eyes can see."
Mar 23, 2023
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LifeQuitter

LifeQuitter

Experienced
Jul 11, 2024
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What does the second option mean?
 
Plentiful_Despair

Plentiful_Despair

Experienced
Aug 23, 2024
265
None. I hate relationships.
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

In the Service of the Queen
Sep 19, 2023
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lol sorry I'm probably being stupid.

Are both options a man and woman where I'm the man? I think it's the 1. hers / 2. his that's throwing me off. Like am I the woman in the second option, or am I gay, or is the point to try and take gender out of it? But then (option 3) I wouldn't understand the relevance of the article.
 
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Mirrory Me

Mirrory Me

"More then your eyes can see."
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lol sorry I'm probably being stupid.

Are both options a man and woman where I'm the man? I think it's the 1. hers / 2. his that's throwing me off. Like am I the woman in the second option, or am I gay, or is the point to try and take gender out of it? But then (option 3) I wouldn't understand the relevance of the article.
I was just thinking about these typical genre differences (e.g. how women or men see themselves and their roles.).

Here are some quotes I found on the internet:

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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

In the Service of the Queen
Sep 19, 2023
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I was just thinking about these typical genre differences (e.g. how women or men see themselves and their roles.).

Here are some quotes I found on the internet:

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I guess I'm not understanding the difference between the options because I see it as a whole package. I love my wife and I'm very proud to announce to the world that she's mine and I'm hers, but she loves that I'm classically masculine and I love that she is classically feminine. I'm not just making myself what she wants. We both try to improve ourselves for the other and please the other, which in my experience leads to the strongest romantic love and - frankly - the best sex.

So if I'm understanding right, option (1) is that the man exists to be what the woman wants and option (2) is something like the man just wants carnal sex, is that right? I guess my answer is both, but a little more of number 1? If you don't want an emotional connection might as well just do it yourself tbh.
 
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-Link-

Deep Breaths
Aug 25, 2018
554
The selectability of both options on an either/or question is a nice touch.

Is this what an acid trip feels like?
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
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I don't really understand either option but that may be due to me being a serial nonsex-haver.
 
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Mirrory Me

Mirrory Me

"More then your eyes can see."
Mar 23, 2023
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I guess I'm not understanding the difference between the options because I see it as a whole package. I love my wife and I'm very proud to announce to the world that she's mine and I'm hers, but she loves that I'm classically masculine and I love that she is classically feminine. I'm not just making myself what she wants. We both try to improve ourselves for the other and please the other, which in my experience leads to the strongest romantic love and - frankly - the best sex.

So if I'm understanding right, option (1) is that the man exists to be what the woman wants and option (2) is something like the man just wants carnal sex, is that right? I guess my answer is both, but a little more of number 1? If you don't want an emotional connection might as well just do it yourself tbh.
It's not really about choosing either of those because they are both horrible anyway. I think It's deffenently better to be in real love then just being a ass kisser.
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
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I was just thinking about these typical genre differences (e.g. how women or men see themselves and their roles.).

Here are some quotes I found on the internet:

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Some more relationship quotes that I found:
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banger12

banger12

Former nerd; current burden
Aug 1, 2024
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Be as her dinner (btw in case this is accidentally a sex joke that's not what I'm going for here)
 
locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

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Is this a Top/Bottom kind of thing?
 
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