Hadn't thought of the music, but good idea... I'm just afraid that I may have an emotional reaction to one of the songs and it may screw me up, half-way through...
Ideally I'd like a partner but the whole logistics of this is very complicated, and I'm worried about legal implications if one or the other fails to CTB. It would have to be an "unspoken" hook-up in a hotel in 2 different rooms, go for dinner, coffee, never talk about it, go to the room and that's it. If you can get F on Tindr, maybe you can find a partner to go on a "date" with with the unspoken intention to each CTB separately?