Venting When someone makes an honest mistake do not violently yell at them

[ultrasharpy123456]

There's absolutely no reason for that to happen to anyone. It was just a mistake, chill out.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

100%

 

[Final_Choice]

Absolutely, I hate it when people take it out of proportion and flip out over something small.

 

[TheSpookyNameGuy]

I dunno about that.

Honest mistakes can be dangerous in certain settings, I've yelled in the face of many halfwits.

If they cry about it, tough.

If it's something silly like dropping toast, meh i agree there.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I agree. I wish people could be more gentle but that's a lot to ask from people

 

[dragonofenvy]

Society be like: How dare you be imperfect? Everybody has to conform to utter perfection, but you don't get to decide what's perfect, everybody else decides. And you're not perfect because we say so. We're going to belittle you for even the slightest mistake. Of course, we are well aware not everybody is perfect, except us of course, we are.

Yeah, I feel you. At jobs, if I made even the slightest mistake I was berated for it. People just can't stand it if you're not right the first time. I'd like to do things right, but you don't give me the chance to do so without telling me I suck. Maybe if they actually tried to teach you instead of shit talk you perhaps then things would be better but nooooooo that's too much to ask.

 

[Judah]

Absolutely, I hate it when people take it out of proportion and flip out over something small.

People just yell at me and point out how clumsy I am when I make a mistake, I hate it

 

[Argo]

I love this thread. So simple and spot on, because it captures the problem of how we cause more suffering when we are suffering. Thank you for making it.