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Done182

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Jan 30, 2019
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My cousin's wedding is in a week, I want it to be over with but I should probably wait until then, or my family will be going to the wedding with the news of my suicide, thoughts? Thank you
 
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andy69

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May 23, 2019
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I think you know you don't want to put your family through it. Maybe wait, and you might change your mind.
 
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omoidarui

omoidarui

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Apr 30, 2019
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i have a family wedding soon too. i would suggest trying to stick it out, don't ruin the occasion for others if you can help it, you can always ctb after.
 
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mutagen5577

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May 30, 2019
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there's never a good time unless you're lucky. There's always going to be some life event or big day or whatever for someone else. It's tough to plan around that stuff.
 
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Kikoo Loool

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Feb 25, 2019
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My cousin's wedding is in a week, I want it to be over with but I should probably wait until then, or my family will be going to the wedding with the news of my suicide, thoughts? Thank you

I urge you to delay any attempt, you seem to care about them so it's worth waiting a bit.
 
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stillwoozy

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May 28, 2019
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I'd wait a week. Once you ctb, the deed is done, and you've held out this long. If it isn't too much pain, a week might just make it a little easier for your family?
 
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not_a_robot

"i hope the leaving is joyful, & never to return"
May 30, 2019
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My cousin's wedding is in a week, I want it to be over with but I should probably wait until then, or my family will be going to the wedding with the news of my suicide, thoughts? Thank you
I don't know.
If my life was full of social obligations on my time like that, it would make me, you know...kill myself.
 
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WideAwake

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May 26, 2019
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The day before the powerball drawing if you have tickets.
 
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LMFAO FOCKERS

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May 26, 2019
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The day before the powerball drawing if you have tickets.
LMFAO
And then you wonder why I have these responses to your posts. Your answer shows you didn't read anything OP had to say. This is lazy efforts and its highly frowned upon in the forum rules. People can spot genuine people. You my friend do not come across as such.
 
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TAW122

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My recommendation would be to be after the wedding, especially if you had good or ok relations with your parents and your family. However, if your family relationship is bad and not on amiable terms, then it's kind of whatever. However, you still need to consider whether you care about the aftermath (I know it's irrelevant for some people as death is death and there is no ability to care or consider after death).
 
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Dracorex0

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What's ctb? I'm new
 
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