Crazy4u
Enlightened
- Sep 29, 2021
- 1,318
I completed most of my ctb to do list, wrote 2 notes, bought most supplies, chose time, days, and location, and prepared for the event and the ctb day.
Why it fell apart? rehoming my dog is harder than expected. Sure, I could give him to any shelter or post rehoming thread online but I can't throw him to the wolves! the truth is, finding a great home for him is very difficult.
Animal shelters and rescues have many dogs available for adoption. They don't have enough resources. People are returning dogs adopted during the pandemic because they need to go back to work!
I contacted 3 rescues and a potential adopter who loves the breed! the first rescue asked follow up questions about medical conditions and ghosted me. The second one doesn't respond. The third one (breed specific rescue) asked about medical condition and ghosted me! These rescues are well-known and have very good reviews!
The potential adopter seemed fine in the beginning. I asked her a follow up question related to the medical condition before meeting her and she suddenly snapped mentioning her experience with the breed and why I am having a problem! I didn't feel comfortable at this point and decided not to proceed with a meeting.
I feel trapped. I am feeling better for no reason but I am worried about the future. Trying to stay alive for 10 years or so and finding resouces to stay alive is a nightmare. Getting my dog 3 years ago is my fault but I didn't know what I know now :(
Why it fell apart? rehoming my dog is harder than expected. Sure, I could give him to any shelter or post rehoming thread online but I can't throw him to the wolves! the truth is, finding a great home for him is very difficult.
Animal shelters and rescues have many dogs available for adoption. They don't have enough resources. People are returning dogs adopted during the pandemic because they need to go back to work!
I contacted 3 rescues and a potential adopter who loves the breed! the first rescue asked follow up questions about medical conditions and ghosted me. The second one doesn't respond. The third one (breed specific rescue) asked about medical condition and ghosted me! These rescues are well-known and have very good reviews!
The potential adopter seemed fine in the beginning. I asked her a follow up question related to the medical condition before meeting her and she suddenly snapped mentioning her experience with the breed and why I am having a problem! I didn't feel comfortable at this point and decided not to proceed with a meeting.
I feel trapped. I am feeling better for no reason but I am worried about the future. Trying to stay alive for 10 years or so and finding resouces to stay alive is a nightmare. Getting my dog 3 years ago is my fault but I didn't know what I know now :(