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Dai

Member
Aug 15, 2024
23
I'm on the lowest level, so only have the physiological needs met. I'd probably need at least level 4 to feel good about myself and for life to be worth living.

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OnMyLast Legs

OnMyLast Legs

Too many regrets
Oct 29, 2024
93
Just red for me.

I wanted green and purple so badly that I neglected orange and yellow. That was a mistake. I went nuts and achieved nothing. 35yo now, no college degree, few good memories and they're all poisoned with shame and regret.
 
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divinemistress36

divinemistress36

Illuminated
Jan 1, 2024
3,175
Red. No wonder we are all depressed a lot of us only on red
 
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kunikuzushi

kunikuzushi

sause
Jan 24, 2023
288
I only have red fulfilled. And not even fully because my sleep quality is terrible.
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Meowing to go out
Dec 27, 2020
4,022
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no.one

Member
Oct 1, 2024
20
i'm always in red. i would like to believe that being on level 4 would also allow me to feel that life is worth living....but i still have my doubts!
 
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-nobodyknows-

-nobodyknows-

Arcanist
Jun 16, 2024
437
Orange, sort of. I really don't like this model though because it gives the illusion that having a certain level is enough for people to get by.
 
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RosebyAnyName

RosebyAnyName

Staring at the ceiling for 6 hours
Nov 9, 2023
218
This is the first time I've seen "social ability" on the second tier. For me, I guess that means I don't have orange, so red it is.
 
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Leiot

Leiot

Coming back as a cat
Oct 2, 2024
316
Orange. I think the 'social ability' deals with superficial communication. I'm blessed that I have food, a roof over my head and health care.
 
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PlannedforPeru

PlannedforPeru

SaSu. Lurker
Sep 21, 2024
121
I have bits and pieces of each level which I know doesn't really make sense since it's supposed to be built on top of one another but as life goes on, I've grown skeptical of this as an accurate universal model for measuring the prerequisites needed to escalate the pyramid. Alternatively (for me at least), it could just be that the higher-level elements still present are the withering remnants from a period where I cared more about the upkeep of my life.

If I had to self-identify what I have from bottom layer to top: (the red and employment are the only ones which I'm actively maintaining)

Physiological Needs: Breathing, food, water, clothing, shelter, sleep
Safety and Security: Employment, health-ish, property (if you consider renting), family
Love and belonging: Friendship, family
Self-esteem: Respect of others
Self-actualization: Morality, creativity

I don't claim to know or assess better than others here, but it seems to me that many here underestimate the higher-level elements they may have. For one, it seems creativity is well exercised in a place like this and has me curious as to how indicative it may be of behaviors beyond the forum. Same goes with morality, some may abandon it in pursuit of CTBing but discussion involving morals and general beliefs are not exactly uncommon. The expression of which may be subconsciously attributed to being granted a level of respect to share here what we otherwise wouldn't out there.

Maybe it's that the pyramid is less relevant to our contemporary standard of living, especially to those of us who are permitted to browse the forum. Or maybe I'm talking straight outta my ass 🤷‍♂️.
 
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MentalFuneral

MentalFuneral

Member
Sep 11, 2024
51
Orange

But I always thought Maslow was full of shit, and that this is psuedoscientific nonsense. I have most of the purple and green tiers fulfilled while entirely lacking yellow and orange.
 
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Hecubaa

Hecubaa

Member
Sep 30, 2024
33
Not even red because I can't eat properly (running on 1 small meal a day for the most part) and my sleep is all over the place. I'm likely dehydrated most of the time as well.
 
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AuroraB

AuroraB

Student
Oct 20, 2024
134
purple, mostly cuz of inheritance. but a few pieces of each category rather than all of those concepts like plannedforperu stated so well.
i'm in my 60s and i've been working this life a very long time.
 
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dyingslowly

Member
Jul 17, 2023
84
I'm on the lowest level, so only have the physiological needs met. I'd probably need at least level 4 to feel good about myself and for life to be worth living.

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Bro u talking about maslow?, here it is all about survival my friend btw I am even below the last level
 
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theolivanderroach

theolivanderroach

but, what ends when the symbols shatter?
Sep 20, 2024
108
Half way in level 3. No intimacy (I'm ace and have always been single by choice), and no sense of connection with others even though I do have family and friends. Edit: nvm I dont have half the stuff in orange either lol
 
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E.T

E.T

silver tongue devil
Jul 22, 2024
77
not even able to feed or water myself properly. i don't work, i have shelter, i could sleep all day if i wanted to but i struggle.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
9,516
I have elements from all levels. I'm also lacking elements from all levels. In terms of a ladder, it would be like being three quarters of the way up then, realising it's not properly supported against something and a lot of the rungs broke on the way up. So, I hang on or, fall off basically.
 
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Gustav Hartmann

Gustav Hartmann

Wizard
Aug 28, 2021
691
I did not knew this construct, so I did some research. The result: It is bullshit.
 
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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
958
I'm on the lowest level, so only have the physiological needs met. I'd probably need at least level 4 to feel good about myself and for life to be worth living.

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I have bits from different levels. Full red besides sleep which is patchy. Orange I have employment, and social ability I think (why is family on both orange and yellow?). Green I feel like I have it except confidence. Purple I have morality and creativity.

I have been pursuing the yellow band for a very long time...
 
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Thisisnotaname

Specialist
Aug 27, 2024
333
First level for me
 
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nihilistic_dragon

nihilistic_dragon

Dead already. Just need to dispose of my body now.
Aug 6, 2024
666
I am barely at the red level lmao
 
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deadtrace

deadtrace

Member
Aug 7, 2023
74
Red for me definitely, and sleep is a push lol.
 
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Buffy

Buffy

24/7 cold
Mar 17, 2024
89
Lowest level, of course
 
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etherealspring

etherealspring

can someone just kill me already
Mar 27, 2024
267
love and belonging. im grateful for the people in my life, but it isn't enough to only live for other people. there's nothing else thats making me stay here and i still want to ctb more than anything
 
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antonhylion

Member
Nov 1, 2024
50
I'm on the red now. But at least got the N
 
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figtree

Member
Feb 7, 2023
43
i'm on red. have most of it but hardly sleep and don't eat enough
 
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Nicholas22231

Nicholas22231

St. Nick
Feb 26, 2024
15
I'm on red and it's a struggle day-by-day, money draining and no income and no education, no meaning, I like to think the way I live now is no different than being a zombie.
 
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blackbeauty

blackbeauty

I hope you won't completely forget me.
Sep 24, 2024
27
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lowest level
 
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wren-briar

wrenbriar.gitlab.io
Jul 1, 2024
241
I had been solidly at the top until side effects of psych meds started causing me problems.

Instead of actually helping, supposed MH "professionals" gaslightled me, utterly discounted my very legitimate concerns, ever one of their subsequent "treatments" made the situation exponentially worse, and over the course of year, they actively shoved me further and further down Maslow's hierarchy.

At this point, I'm in the top of the red (sans hygiene because of the combination of broken pipes and depression; and sans sleep - that's been fucked for decades now), but only because I still have one family member and one close friend, who understand just how much harm the supposed MH "professionals" inflicted upon me.

That said, my bank account is going more and more into the red -as a result of just how broken those supposed MH "providers" left me- so even if they hadn't made me actively suicidal as a direct and explicit result of their actions against me -because of my strongly held moral beliefs about my own right-to-death- the damage they inflicted would have ultimately made me actively suicidal.

 
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