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Does anyone have any research literature or even just your own personal thoughts on what happens to people who take their own lives if we were living (hypothetical speaking……. possibly) in an infinite universe? ♾️

Thanks for sharing! ❤️

EDIT: I think I read somewhere that Buddhists believe that when you suicide, you continue to do the same thing (kill yourself) over and over again in every life. PLEASE correct me if this is not accurate. I hope this is NOT accurate!

I think I'd prefer eternal nothingness.
 
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eternal rest or reincarnation
 
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Nobody knows what happens after, hopefully eternal nothingness.
 
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Either reincarnation or reliving life as yourself. 😬
 
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I imagine there are no consequences for doing so. I think there is a soul inside of me and it will go on. Just my beliefs, though.
 
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Hopefully something better than this? But who knows. There is this image in my head though everytime i imagine my suicide, me looking down at my lifeless body, my head tilted side ways with indifference....sorry too much NDE :)
 
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From a materialist standpoint, the brain ceases to function upon death, leading to the cessation of consciousness. In an infinite universe, life continues for others, but for the individual, it's likely eternal non-existence. This view aligns with the idea that after death, there is simply nothingness—similar to before birth.

if the universe is cyclical, meaning life and death repeat endlessly. In an infinite cycle, you might be reborn into a similar or different existence, experiencing life repeatedly in various forms or as different beings.

The Objectively Bad Universe (Energy Loss)

This aligns closely with our current understanding of the universe. The second law of thermodynamics dictates that entropy increases, leading to the eventual "heat death" where usable energy is depleted. In this scenario:

Systems degrade, and complexity ultimately gives way to disorder.
Life and other dynamic processes are temporary anomalies in a march toward stillness.

This kind of universe imposes an inherent limitation on development and sustainability, making it "bad" from the standpoint of fostering long-term complexity and creativity.

1. Infinite Universes
If space-time goes on forever, then it must start repeating at some point, because there are a finite number of ways particles can be arranged in space and time. So if you look far enough, you would encounter another version of you— in fact, infinite versions of you. Some of these twins will be doing exactly what you're doing right now, while others will have worn a different sweater this morning, and still others will have made vastly different career and life choices. Because the observable universe extends only as far as light has had a chance to get in the 13.7 billion years since the Big Bang, the space-time beyond that distance can be considered to be its own separate universe. In this way, a multitude of universes exists next to each other in a giant patchwork quilt of universes.
 
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eternal rest or reincarnation
Reincarnation scares the hell out of me. I just want to cease to exist in eternal nothingness.
 
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Reincarnation scares the hell out of me. I just want to cease to exist in eternal nothingness.
i personally wouldnt mind a second chance, but the thought of living again in a life worse than this one scares me too
 
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i personally wouldnt mind a second chance, but the thought of living again in a life worse than this one scares me too
Same ugh.
 
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From a materialist standpoint, the brain ceases to function upon death, leading to the cessation of consciousness. In an infinite universe, life continues for others, but for the individual, it's likely eternal non-existence. This view aligns with the idea that after death, there is simply nothingness—similar to before birth.

if the universe is cyclical, meaning life and death repeat endlessly. In an infinite cycle, you might be reborn into a similar or different existence, experiencing life repeatedly in various forms or as different beings.

The Objectively Bad Universe (Energy Loss)

This aligns closely with our current understanding of the universe. The second law of thermodynamics dictates that entropy increases, leading to the eventual "heat death" where usable energy is depleted. In this scenario:

Systems degrade, and complexity ultimately gives way to disorder.
Life and other dynamic processes are temporary anomalies in a march toward stillness.

This kind of universe imposes an inherent limitation on development and sustainability, making it "bad" from the standpoint of fostering long-term complexity and creativity.

1. Infinite Universes
If space-time goes on forever, then it must start repeating at some point, because there are a finite number of ways particles can be arranged in space and time. So if you look far enough, you would encounter another version of you— in fact, infinite versions of you. Some of these twins will be doing exactly what you're doing right now, while others will have worn a different sweater this morning, and still others will have made vastly different career and life choices. Because the observable universe extends only as far as light has had a chance to get in the 13.7 billion years since the Big Bang, the space-time beyond that distance can be considered to be its own separate universe. In this way, a multitude of universes exists next to each other in a giant patchwork quilt of universes.
👍 Interesting. Thank you for this! ❤️
 
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i hope nothingness. lights out. like before we were born. emptiness. i would not want to be reincarnated onto THIS polluted/toxic insane planet and civilization.
 
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i personally wouldnt mind a second chance, but the thought of living again in a life worse than this one scares me too
I agree. Being born into a 3rd world country or having to live really any life that feels so much pain and suffering scares me. I just don't want to be born again.
 
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We're all the same consciousness but we are parcelled into our singular subjectivities. I am the same as you, the same as a kid in Palestine, the same as Emperor Nero and Marilyn Monroe and everyone who has ever lived. What I feel as the subjective "me" is just a series of events and conditions converging to produce this combination of cells, brain matter, brain function and therefore consciousness and self-perception, which is the same as us all. When these conditions no longer coalesce e.g. if I stop the oxygen going to my brain through committing suicide by some method or other, the brain matter will die, the brain function will stop, and there will be nothing left to have consciousness. This is happening literally all the time. As is the production of new clumps of cells which will form new "selves". Even though we are all experiencing the same consciousness and we are all fragments of reality/the universe perceiving itself, there cannot be any link between this life/consciousness/self that I perceive to be "mine" and any other consciousness such as "yours" or "a future person's" because it is localised to my cells and their functions. When the cells die, there is nothing. So there cannot be conscious reincarnation or afterlife. Before this clump of cells came out of the union of sperm and egg and developed sufficiently to become conscious, there was nothing, and after the clump of cells dies there will also be nothing. The only thing is that people keep reproducing so there are countless iterations of this happening over and over again. I guess that could be called cyclical, but it's also linear as time does seem to exist and move in one direction and so someone born after me cannot exist before me in time.

The mystery to me is how anything came to be in the first place, how is there life, how is there anything at all?
 
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i hope nothingness. lights out. like before we were born. emptiness. i would not want to be reincarnated onto THIS polluted/toxic insane planet and civilization.
Exactly. ❤️
We're all the same consciousness but we are parcelled into our singular subjectivities. I am the same as you, the same as a kid in Palestine, the same as Emperor Nero and Marilyn Monroe and everyone who has ever lived. What I feel as the subjective "me" is just a series of events and conditions converging to produce this combination of cells, brain matter, brain function and therefore consciousness and self-perception, which is the same as us all. When these conditions no longer coalesce e.g. if I stop the oxygen going to my brain through committing suicide by some method or other, the brain matter will die, the brain function will stop, and there will be nothing left to have consciousness. This is happening literally all the time. As is the production of new clumps of cells which will form new "selves". Even though we are all experiencing the same consciousness and we are all fragments of reality/the universe perceiving itself, there cannot be any link between this life/consciousness/self that I perceive to be "mine" and any other consciousness such as "yours" or "a future person's" because it is localised to my cells and their functions. When the cells die, there is nothing. So there cannot be conscious reincarnation or afterlife. Before this clump of cells came out of the union of sperm and egg and developed sufficiently to become conscious, there was nothing, and after the clump of cells dies there will also be nothing. The only thing is that people keep reproducing so there are countless iterations of this happening over and over again. I guess that could be called cyclical, but it's also linear as time does seem to exist and move in one direction and so someone born after me cannot exist before me in time.

The mystery to me is how anything came to be in the first place, how is there life, how is there anything at all?
I absolutely love this! ❤️ Please excuse my ignorance in this as I'm just now discovering this topic of a "we are all one in an infinite universe" mentality. This absolutely fascinates me! I just have so many questions because trying to wrap my head around all this feels so very confusing to me! I'm trying so hard to fully grasp and understand this. So if a person takes their life in a world where we are all one, does that person gain consciousness again in another life? Will that person experience pain and suffering all over again? This is so confusing yet so interesting to me and I really want to understand it! Thank you for such an interesting response! ❤️

EDIT: I just had an epiphany after thinking more about your response. Does this mean I am talking to myself (while typing to you, who is actually me)? Whoa!!!! 🤯
Does this mean I am (we are) all alone?! That's absolutely terrifying with all the pain and suffering we have to endure in these lives! I have so many more questions now! My mind feels like it's going to explode now! 😅
 
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I recommend The Tibetan book of the Dead.
It goes into detail on a state we enter shortly after death and guidance on how to liberate soul to return to unity or eternal peace, as opposed to getting weighed down by all the past lives, sensory desires and mind filters and reincarnating again.
 
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From a materialist standpoint, the brain ceases to function upon death, leading to the cessation of consciousness. In an infinite universe, life continues for others, but for the individual, it's likely eternal non-existence. This view aligns with the idea that after death, there is simply nothingness—similar to before birth.

if the universe is cyclical, meaning life and death repeat endlessly. In an infinite cycle, you might be reborn into a similar or different existence, experiencing life repeatedly in various forms or as different beings.

The Objectively Bad Universe (Energy Loss)

This aligns closely with our current understanding of the universe. The second law of thermodynamics dictates that entropy increases, leading to the eventual "heat death" where usable energy is depleted. In this scenario:

Systems degrade, and complexity ultimately gives way to disorder.
Life and other dynamic processes are temporary anomalies in a march toward stillness.

This kind of universe imposes an inherent limitation on development and sustainability, making it "bad" from the standpoint of fostering long-term complexity and creativity.

1. Infinite Universes
If space-time goes on forever, then it must start repeating at some point, because there are a finite number of ways particles can be arranged in space and time. So if you look far enough, you would encounter another version of you— in fact, infinite versions of you. Some of these twins will be doing exactly what you're doing right now, while others will have worn a different sweater this morning, and still others will have made vastly different career and life choices. Because the observable universe extends only as far as light has had a chance to get in the 13.7 billion years since the Big Bang, the space-time beyond that distance can be considered to be its own separate universe. In this way, a multitude of universes exists next to each other in a giant patchwork quilt of universes.
Holy crap! This is absolutely fascinating!!!!!! 😳
Do you have a more simple, Kindergarten version of this so my tiny pea-brain can understand this better? You have my gear turning now with so much more curiosity now!!!! There seems to be some scientific facts in an infinite universe as well. So if you end your life in an infinite universe, are you going to start to feel a different kind of pain in another body after this body dies? I feel absolutely ignorant with this kind of stuff, but I'm so curious, and you seem so informative and well educated in this kind of stuff! I'm not into woo-woo, but this seems to actually have some science to back this up! I have a lot of reading and research to do! Thank you for this!! ❤️
 
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Exactly. ❤️

I absolutely love this! ❤️ Please excuse my ignorance in this as I'm just now discovering this topic of a "we are all one in an infinite universe" mentality. This absolutely fascinates me! I just have so many questions because trying to wrap my head around all this feels so very confusing to me! I'm trying so hard to fully grasp and understand this. So if a person takes their life in a world where we are all one, does that person gain consciousness again in another life? Will that person experience pain and suffering all over again? This is so confusing yet so interesting to me and I really want to understand it! Thank you for such an interesting response! ❤️

EDIT: I just had an epiphany after thinking more about your response. Does this mean I am talking to myself (while typing to you, who is actually me)? Whoa!!!! 🤯
Does this mean I am (we are) all alone?! That's absolutely terrifying with all the pain and suffering we have to endure in these lives! I have so many more questions now! My mind feels like it's going to explode now! 😅
I recommend you reading the short story "The egg" by Andy Weir. Blew my mind as well.
 
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I recommend The Tibetan book of the Dead.
It goes into detail on a state we enter shortly after death and guidance on how to liberate soul to return to unity or eternal peace, as opposed to getting weighed down by all the past lives, sensory desires and mind filters and reincarnating again.
Thanks! I just found the book for under $20 on Amazon… AND it has 4.7/5 star reviews! Thank you for this!!! ❤️
EDIT: So I was thinking more about this… So I (or… we) basically wrote this book, read this book already and have NOT yet read this book, all at the same time?!?! My way of thinking is completely changing, almost like I'm going crazy in my own head over here! 🤯😂
What about animals? As I look at my cat, is my cat me too, or a plant or tree outside, or is it just limited to humans? Holy shit! This feels so crazy to think about but I absolutely love it!! 🤣
 
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Thanks! I just found the book for under $20 on Amazon… AND it has 4.7/5 star reviews!!!! Thank you for this! ❤️
Aye, my pleasure. I also believe you can find an online free version, or at least a short synapsis. Wikipedia is also quite eloquent on that.
EDIT: I think I read somewhere that Buddhists believe that when you suicide, you continue to do the same thing (kill yourself) over and over again in every life. PLEASE correct me if this is not accurate. I hope this is NOT accurate!

I think I'd prefer eternal nothingness.
I am afraid of this as well, quite often the lyrics of Aime Mann pops into my mind:"It's not going to stop 'till you wise up."
But I also believe the universe, the god or our soul have an infinite compassion and whatever follows is going to be to our benefit, no matter what decision we make. I believe everything and everyone is ultimately on our side, as heartbreaking as this existence can be. There's this concept circling around Internet, stating that we are just Universe experiencing itself, some people on here also elaborated on that so I refer to them. And in that sense, if we are here to simply experience everything, every emotion, every scenario, every relationship, while in our limited bodies and minds, playing our part in a play, catching the bus is just another thing on the list. To cross, to experience, to observe and then let go. Because none of that matters in the end. And yet it matters so much. ❤️
 
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I recommend you reading the short story "The egg" by Andy Weir. Blew my mind as well.

I recommend you reading the short story "The egg" by Andy Weir. Blew my mind as well.
Whoa! 🤯 So basically we are all in an INCUBATOR 🪺 (AKA: Earth 🥚) and we need to mature??? Is that what I'm understanding? Then once we hit full maturity, then what happens??? Is there a sequel to this? 😂
This is absolutely FASCINATING and makes me want to go out and start talking to myself (aka, my neighbors!)
So what happens if we suicide instead of die of a more natural cause. Is there a difference in the way we die that affects the way we live in our next life???
Thank you for your interesting response!! ❤️
 
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I can never really get my head around reincarnation. Not in terms of retaining enough of 'ourselves' to be consideted the same person. Just from basic maths really. If the earth's time span up to this moment were condensed into 24 hours, proportionally speaking- humans would only have been around for 1 or 2 seconds! Prior to that- what were our 'souls' up to? Did they inhabit dinosaurs or, did we originate from other planets?

Also, what's the end goal? For any religion really. If we're sent here to learn and grow. What for?
 
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Aye, my pleasure. I also believe you can find an online free version, or at least a short synapsis. Wikipedia is also quite eloquent on that.

I am afraid of this as well, quite often the lyrics of Aime Mann pops into my mind:"It's not going to stop 'till you wise up."
But I also believe the universe, the god or our soul have an infinite compassion and whatever follows is going to be to our benefit, no matter what decision we make. I believe everything and everyone is ultimately on our side, as heartbreaking as this existence can be. There's this concept circling around Internet, stating that we are just Universe experiencing itself, some people on here also elaborated on that so I refer to them. And in that sense, if we are here to simply experience everything, every emotion, every scenario, every relationship, while in our limited bodies and minds, playing our part in a play, catching the bus is just another thing on the list. To cross, to experience, to observe and then let go. Because none of that matters in the end. And yet it matters so much. ❤️
So beautifully and so well said. Thank you! 🤗
 
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I think consciousness springs up again like it did this time and another life is lived in whatever form that may be
 
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Whoa! 🤯 So basically we are all in an INCUBATOR 🪺 (AKA: Earth 🥚) and we need to mature??? Is that what I'm understanding? Then once we hit full maturity, then what happens??? Is there a sequel to this? 😂
This is absolutely FASCINATING and makes me want to go out and start talking to myself (aka, my neighbors!)
So what happens if we suicide instead of die of a more natural cause. Is there a difference in the way we die that affects the way we live in our next life???
Thank you for your interesting response!! ❤️
Haha I love your responses, you seem so genuinely playful and curious about mysteries of life. It's very refreshing 😌
No one knows what happens on the other side, we can all just take some wild guesses, but I believe there's some truth in everyone's beliefs. If we're all just one, then it makes perfect sense. Just need to go around, ask the whole world and than patch those answers together somehow 😂
Honestly I think you should ask yourself as well, and see whatever idea pops into your brain, I am actually curious what YOU think about this.

I sometimes imagine this concept of oneness, or so called God as the game "The Sims". At least the way I play it. I create all these different characters, with different looks and personalities, spend hours on designing their features, their behaviour, their homes and aspirations, and then play with them and make them interact, while also making them "stay in character"(sometimes adding some plot twists 😁)
Yet all of these sims are just one person, me, a gamer, playing them 😄

What's your take on this, my friend?
Do you think people who ctb and people who die more "naturally" get to take different pathways?
 
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Exactly. ❤️

I absolutely love this! ❤️ Please excuse my ignorance in this as I'm just now discovering this topic of a "we are all one in an infinite universe" mentality. This absolutely fascinates me! I just have so many questions because trying to wrap my head around all this feels so very confusing to me! I'm trying so hard to fully grasp and understand this. So if a person takes their life in a world where we are all one, does that person gain consciousness again in another life? Will that person experience pain and suffering all over again? This is so confusing yet so interesting to me and I really want to understand it! Thank you for such an interesting response! ❤️

EDIT: I just had an epiphany after thinking more about your response. Does this mean I am talking to myself (while typing to you, who is actually me)? Whoa!!!! 🤯
Does this mean I am (we are) all alone?! That's absolutely terrifying with all the pain and suffering we have to endure in these lives! I have so many more questions now! My mind feels like it's going to explode now! 😅
You can listen to Alan watts. He's a philosopher who popularized eastern philosophy to the west
 
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Aye, my pleasure. I also believe you can find an online free version, or at least a short synapsis. Wikipedia is also quite eloquent on that.

I am afraid of this as well, quite often the lyrics of Aime Mann pops into my mind:"It's not going to stop 'till you wise up."
But I also believe the universe, the god or our soul have an infinite compassion and whatever follows is going to be to our benefit, no matter what decision we make. I believe everything and everyone is ultimately on our side, as heartbreaking as this existence can be. There's this concept circling around Internet, stating that we are just Universe experiencing itself, some people on here also elaborated on that so I refer to them. And in that sense, if we are here to simply experience everything, every emotion, every scenario, every relationship, while in our limited bodies and minds, playing our part in a play, catching the bus is just another thing on the list. To cross, to experience, to observe and then let go. Because none of that matters in the end. And yet it matters so much. ❤️
"I believe that everyone and everything is on our side". I want to believe this so badly, but I feel like there is too much suffering in this world. I don't necessarily believe that the Universe or god is evil or out to hurt us, it just feels like it doesn't care. There's definitely joy in life, but to me anyway, the pain isn't worth the joy. What would be the end goal of an egg universe? What do you think happens after we all reach full maturity?
 
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In the story, "The Egg," I think there's some type of insinuation that the main character will become divine in some way after finishing the life of every human that has ever lived, but I'm not sure if I'm remembering correctly. A sort of "enlightenment" story whereby we're undergoing a transformation to become godlike.
 
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I absolutely love this! ❤️ Please excuse my ignorance in this as I'm just now discovering this topic of a "we are all one in an infinite universe" mentality. This absolutely fascinates me! I just have so many questions because trying to wrap my head around all this feels so very confusing to me! I'm trying so hard to fully grasp and understand this. So if a person takes their life in a world where we are all one, does that person gain consciousness again in another life? Will that person experience pain and suffering all over again? This is so confusing yet so interesting to me and I really want to understand it! Thank you for such an interesting response! ❤️

EDIT: I just had an epiphany after thinking more about your response. Does this mean I am talking to myself (while typing to you, who is actually me)? Whoa!!!! 🤯
Does this mean I am (we are) all alone?! That's absolutely terrifying with all the pain and suffering we have to endure in these lives! I have so many more questions now! My mind feels like it's going to explode now! 😅
I don't have all the answers either. There's an essential concept called "non -dualism" which might be good for you to research. Basically, I am you and you are me, but also at the same time you are just you and I am just me. It's both at the same time. Because I can never have your or anyone else's experience, I can only have my own. But we have the same essence of "me-ness"/self. It's hard to talk about in language 😄

Which means that yes, "something" is reborn, but it's not "you". It has the same essential quality as you, which is universal consciousness/buddha nature/"big self", which means it is "you", but not the "you" that you know as yourself. The "you" that has suffered in this life will just be gone. I obviously have no way of knowing for sure if this is true, but I know it feels true to me and correlates to Eastern philosophy and current research in neuroscience.
 
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Haha I love your responses, you seem so genuinely playful and curious about mysteries of life. It's very refreshing 😌
No one knows what happens on the other side, we can all just take some wild guesses, but I believe there's some truth in everyone's beliefs. If we're all just one, then it makes perfect sense. Just need to go around, ask the whole world and than patch those answers together somehow 😂
Honestly I think you should ask yourself as well, and see whatever idea pops into your brain, I am actually curious what YOU think about this.

I sometimes imagine this concept of oneness, or so called God as the game "The Sims". At least the way I play it. I create all these different characters, with different looks and personalities, spend hours on designing their features, their behaviour, their homes and aspirations, and then play with them and make them interact, while also making them "stay in character"(sometimes adding some plot twists 😁)
Yet all of these sims are just one person, me, a gamer, playing them 😄

What's your take on this, my friend?
Do you think people who ctb and people who die more "naturally" get to take different pathways?
There seem to be a lot of very deep thinkers on this site… I absolutely love it!! Some of these relays are so interesting and informative!

"Do you think people who ctb and people who die more "naturally" get to take different pathways?"

I am literally on the fence when it comes to this, but I'm SO CURIOUS if there's a difference in the way we die, if that affects the way we live out our next life (assuming an infinite universe is true).

I feel like it's one of these three now:

1. We die and fall into eternal nothingness (like a forever, dreamless sleep) until entropy hits and kills everything else in the universe). I'm fascinated with learning about entropy, though kind of hard for me to understand, but kind of what DarkOver was talking about).

2. The Simulation Theory.

3. The Egg Theory or an Infinite Universe (Can/do these co-exist?

Some of this stuff absolutely terrifies me!

#1 doesn't seem too bad. I'm OK with being in a state of a forever, dreamless sleep.

#2 scares me because if aliens were controlling us, then they are absolutely CRUEL creatures!!!!

#3 scares me because I know many people have worse lives than the one I'm living and I selfishly do NOT want to experience their life or any more pain and suffering.

I really appreciate seeing and learning from so many deep thinkers on this site!! ❤️ Just LOVE YOU GUYS!!! 🥰
 
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