Venting what even are the pros of being alive??

[libitina]

love? can't have that, i'm ugly. sex? again, i'm too ugly for that. what are these so called "good parts" of life?? there's only the neutral and the bad in my life. i've genuinely never been happy. my life is just a series of embarrassments and misfortunes.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I can't think of any. It baffles me as to how people enjoy life. I see being a human as the second worst curse ever, only falling behind immortality. Life isn't fun or enjoyable at all, at least not for me. I don't enjoy anything and I see no pros

 

[uglyugly]

I used to live a good life - traveling, taking photos, spending time with friends. Now I have zero friends and am so broke I can't go anywhere except work. This has caused massive depression. Whatever good I had was gone, so at least from my perspective, life sucks 100% and there are no good parts.

 

[nir]

I really enjoy nature and being outside. I don't know if it's "good" per se, maybe a true neutral thing. It exists and I get to observe it, and I think it can be very pretty and I feel positive feelings from it.

 

[ThatGuyOverThere]

Basically none, especially none that would justify the pain needed to reach the point in which you get to experience the supposed good parts.

But If I had to chose, Then The "best" parts of my life are probably, the times I'm alone listening to music, But even the pain I will necessarily experience in the absence of these glimpses of Happiness, cannot ever justify using them as a motivator to live.

 

[divinemistress36]

Dogs and nature but thats not enough to keep living

 

[radar311]

For me, the only good thing is my cat.. but I know my friend will take care of him when I'm gone

 

[SVEN]

My Doberman loved me.

 

[MentalFuneral]

enjoying and creating art, caring for animals, learning new skills and information, admiring and studying nature. but ultimately its not enough for me to keep me going in this dogshit world

 

[Davey40210]

Yes it's quite relatable. There are so many things that other people seem to enjoy. Like nature, good food, winning stuff, friends and family. But I don't care about any of it. I used to care only about certain things like sleeping with girls or computer games or sports or making money but even that is gone now.

It's like the only thing I'm really really looking forward to is dying. Like it's the only thing that excites me and I'm counting the days.

I tried a few times and failed though (due to SI) but hope I will do it this time. Aiming for doing it on the 27th of Sept.

 

[zaxxy1810]

The only advantage of life is that CTB is possible. Theoretically, there are some other advantages, but the cards are not dealt equally to us, so the vast majority, unfortunately, are not able to realize these advantages. In general, the only true purpose and meaning of existence is to gain experience, and now it is individual who how he looks at it.

 

[sserafim]

Honestly, I don't see any pros to being alive (but that's just me)

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

No one can convince me that there is anything that has to be a pro to me , or that to me should be a pro of living or of life .

Everything is meaningless . Nothing matters. Life is meaningless suffering. Again no one can prove that there's an objective meaning to life or that anything is objectively good meaningful or important

Something might be really good or important to you but to me it won't be , nothing is except avoiding extreme pain and my suicide for me asap

The only thing that matters to me is avoiding extreme pain and my suicide asap for me

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

For lucky people, the vast majority, there are millions of pros, for the rest not a single one.

 

[brokeandbroken]

love? can't have that, i'm ugly. sex? again, i'm too ugly for that. what are these so called "good parts" of life?? there's only the neutral and the bad in my life. i've genuinely never been happy. my life is just a series of embarrassments and misfortunes.

For me right now literally 0. Literally there isn't a single pro. The only thing is maybe it could get better. And maybe I dont have to take a risk of making things worse or dying a painful untimely death. Everyday the it could get, gets smaller and smaller. Even if I do every day I go to sleep without it doing so is another a day I am forced to live with my happiness and just my general essence of a person stolen. Honestly that's started a push effect towards CTBing as well. I'm losing my theoretical best days. The days when I should be healthiest and most full of life. If all your days are bad left or all your good ones are gone better to die.

That's it that's literally the math.

 

[nihilistic_dragon]

"Ugly" is a very subjective term. What is ugly to you may be beautiful to another person.