Discussion what do you wish someone would say to you?

[willitpass]

what do you wish someone would say when you tell them you want to/plan on ctb?

 

[BPD Barbie]

That they might not understand but that they respect my wishes. That they can see the pain in my face and hear it in my voice, that it'll be ok in the end.

 

[selfhater]

"i'm sorry for every word i wrote to change you, i'm sorry for so many things. i couldn't see you when you were here and, now that you are gone, i see you everywhere"

 

[Deleted member 1465]

Grab your things, I've come to take you home.

 

[Oh so tired]

It's OK. You deserve to be free from suffering. I don't want to lose you but I will support you in whatever path you choose.

 

[Good4Nothing]

"I love you."

 

[LastRide]

"I respect your wish to die, if you want me to be there for the final moment just let me know."
I am actually not sure whether I'd want anyone non-suicidal to be there with me. First, it would put them into a very awkward legal position. Secondly, well unless they want to die too, they cannot really help or they'll have even worse issues with the legal system ! The only reason I would like someone there is really because there is always this fear of not getting it quite right and stay alive, in which case if someone could help me finish myself off so as to make sure I don't survive, that would be a great comforting thought. But apart from maybe a ctb partner who would do such a thing, even for a friend?

 

[Sad_Autistic_boy_101]

I wish that someone said for once that my emotions are valid, I grew up in a home where anything other than happiness was unacceptable and that I am selfish for being depressed. I wish that someone said that I mattered to them.

 

[willitpass]

I wish that someone said for once that my emotions are valid, I grew up in a home where anything other than happiness was unacceptable and that I am selfish for being depressed. I wish that someone said that I mattered to them.

i know it may not help much anymore, but you matter to me. if you ever want to talk i'm here. i know that sounds generic and probably won't help but if you ever just want to feel like someone is there, i'm here

 

[Deleted member 10475]

I wouldn't want anyone to say anything to me, I'd just want a hug.

I've had so many people lie to me over the years, I'd just want to someone to show that they'd care about me at my lowest point.

 

[rebelsue]

Nothing. Just hold my hand.

Unless it's "The Mother" ... I want her to tell me she's taking me away from here finally, where I no longer have to be a victim of uncertainty.

 

[Despondent]

"I understand"

 

[kukookat90]

"you are my person".

If there was one person on earth who really felt that way about me, I would want to stick around for them, not so much for myself. I don't think there is.

 

[Good4Nothing]

"you are my person".

If there was one person on earth who really felt that way about me, I would want to stick around for them, not so much for myself. I don't think there is.

This is me, too. I don't want to live for me, I hate me.
I want to live for someone who needs me. Unfortunately, no one does...

 

[kukookat90]

This is me, too. I don't want to live for me, I hate me.
I want to live for someone who needs me. Unfortunately, no one does...

Isn't this the hardest? Most people I know who feel like this aren't desperate to be loved.... we're desperate for the chance to give love. That's what makes the loneliness really sink in.

 

[meles_inoris]

That they are going to kill me instantly

 

[Erase.myself]

I would want them to tell me that although it may make them sad to lose me, that they know that I'm suffering and they understand that I need to be free of it and find peace.

I wouldn't want anyone to say anything to me, I'd just want a hug.

I've had so many people lie to me over the years, I'd just want to someone to show that they'd care about me at my lowest point.

I'm sending you so so many hugs.

 

[Cutepoison]

It's OK. You deserve to be free from suffering. I don't want to lose you but I will support you in whatever path you choose.

This. I wish that they said this <3

 

[pete_x]

"Can I have your cello ?"

 

[Bct]

"It must be really tiring to suffer all this time and see no hope for the future. I love you and I'll be sad when you're gone, but i respect your decision and hopefully you could find your peace soon" along with a hug.

 

[Nyxx33]

We don't need to talk. Let's just be in each other's presence.

because all I do us screw up relationships when I talk.

 

[willitpass]

We don't need to talk. Let's just be in each other's presence.

because all I do us screw up relationships when I talk.

i feel that

 

[watereyes]

what do you wish someone would say when you tell them you want to/plan on ctb?

"I'm going to help you with that."

 

[purplesmoothie]

"I'll help you ctb"

 

[disconnection]

"Cool, I have some SN right here, we can do it together!"

 

[Tintypographer]

You deserve to be free of life's pain and anxiety.

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

"You cried in your sleep, it's just a bad dream."

 

[TheSoulless]

"I can help you to kill yourself as painlessly as possible"

or alternatively

"The hardest choices require the strongest wills."

 

[K-O]

They will hug me , say in my ear "You are loved and free, soon you will be with your love ones again" then shoot me through the heart.

 

[Imani]

I wish that someone said for once that my emotions are valid, I grew up in a home where anything other than happiness was unacceptable and that I am selfish for being depressed. I wish that someone said that I mattered to them.

We have similar experiences. I was simply supposed to shake off repeated traumas and pains. Know that it's not your fault for how you were raised, I am sure that you are/have done the best that you can despite the depression and you matter deeply even if those around you can't see it.