pandorasactor

pandorasactor

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Sep 23, 2024
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There's multiple ways of looking at this question. There's the argument that humans a just a biological evolutionary product soon that may die out in the future, that mabye there's a God out there and we need to spiritually enlighten ourselves to get to heaven, or there's the argument of just getting loads of economic power, political power, high status, etc etc.

But what's the point? I feel like life is comparable to a game which has an ending (or multiple endings), but what do we achieve from playing life? I'm sure everyone can agree that there's a portion of "players" that are cheating and make the game less fun to play.

What's your opinion?
 
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obligatoryshackles

I don't want to get used to it.
Aug 11, 2023
147
There is no point. We take actions, do things, because we chase an emotional reward. Which is just an extension of an evolutionary trait that helped us populate the planet and achieve material success. There is nothing beyond that.
 
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(in)sane

(in)sane

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Jun 9, 2024
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For me personally, it's being happy and making others happy. I'm neither of those two so I guess that's why I am where I am. I wish I had a second chance at life so I could at least make sure everyone else is safe before I go.
There is no point. We take actions, do things, because we chase an emotional reward. Which is just an extension of an evolutionary trait that helped us populate the planet and achieve material success. There is nothing beyond that.
Stupid trait extension why are we so good at populating I wanna be a panda
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I don't believe there to be any, I see existence itself as the most terrible tragedy that just caused endless amounts of harm and suffering with no deeper meaning or purpose behind it. To me existence just feels like a mistake where I'm just waiting to die where eventually all will be forgotten about me, personally all I hope for is to be permanently unconscious where I cannot suffer and cannot be harmed in any way, I just wish for death to bring me peace from all the pain and suffering in this existence I always saw as very unnecessary.
 
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EG1141

EG1141

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Aug 12, 2024
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There is no "purpose" to life. The purpose of one's own individual life is completely determined by circumstances like where you live, your family, and the experience you have. For me, I just try to be kind and love as many as I can. I think that's my purpose.
 
EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
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From an evolutionary biology perspective, to survive and successfully reproduce, pass your genes on to the next generation. Beyond that, the purpose or end goal of life is subjective, I guess. For some people, it's dedicating their life to their passions and for others it might be finding someone and settling down. I don't believe in a true objective purpose or end goal for life beyond the general goals of evolution.

For me personally, I don't give a crap about finding a purpose in life. I just want to meet my bf irl before I die (I love him so much ♥️), and that's about it.
 
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sserafim

sserafim

brighter than the sun, that’s just me
Sep 13, 2023
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There is none. You don't achieve anything by playing the game of life. I guess it's for the experience
 
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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
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I wonder this as well, especially because I feel like I need a purpose in order to have a reason to live.

I agree with what was said that, from a biological standpoint, the purpose is to survive and reproduce, but from a psychological standpoint...

For me, it used to be helping others. Seeing others so grateful for my help and feeling like I made a tiny difference made me feel better and feel like my existence had a purpose.

Then, the amount of suffering I saw broke my positive outlook of life and since then it became hard for that to be my purpose. When the world seems so dark, everything feels kind of pointless.

Have a partner and settle down feels like a long term goal rather than a purpose. Having children doesn't feel like a purpose, anyone can do it, there's nothing special about it. What would be our purpose as unique individuals? Something that is unique to each of us, that makes sense for the kind of people we are?

I'm not a genius, I won't change the world, why does my existence matter?
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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I don't think there is one set goal for us all to achieve or, if there is, there's no real consensus on what it might be. Even religions don't exactly give us an end goal. Be a good and moral person, learn stuff, endure suffering- why? To get to heaven? What do we do there?!! To keep reincarnating until we've learnt something- What? Why?

I just think trying to find a purpose in life can be a very good coping mechanism in trying to live it. It probably makes us more willing to put up with all the shit if we are aiming to achieve something. That could be anything- have a fulfilling career, a loving family, see the world, break a world record, acquire wealth and possessions, set up a charity, invent or discover something, whatever floats your boat.

I think a lot of people find themselves here (suicidal,) either because they can find no meaning, no sense of fulfilment or purpose in life or, the things they do desperately want feel unachievable.
 
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Darkover

Darkover

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Jul 29, 2021
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Ultimately, the end goal of life may be less about reaching a definitive destination and more about how we navigate the journey itself.

i had a purpose to learn as much as i could about technology maths computers how everything works basically including the universe and being creative with programming until i got a brain injury 8 years ago when i was 30
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
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Life is a cancer. Its only purpose is to replicate and spread itself as far as it can go.

The end goal for each individual varies but ultimately it's meant for that one end goal.
 
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obligatoryshackles

I don't want to get used to it.
Aug 11, 2023
147
If I may be a little pretentious and add a little sophism beyond biology and determinism: the purpose of life is to search for purpose. Just as the purpose of evolution is to continually search for a niche in an ever changing ecosystem, the purpose of life is the search itself. The very pursuit of a place to belong, a goal to chase. That's why we suffer most when we stop and not when we get lost.
 
SmallKoy

SmallKoy

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Jan 18, 2024
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The purpose we have in life is what we make for ourselves. To live it as we please. I would personally rather not deal with it all.
 
weirdoldguy

weirdoldguy

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Sep 21, 2024
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Objectively the purpose of life is simple, we're supposed to reproduce and protect our tribe so that they can prosper. Humans do this with technology and technology constantly changes in an upwards fashion which makes life easier and potentially can solve the question of "What's the purpose in life?". It probably won't happen for a long time unfortunately.

Spiritually you have to think about us coming into being, we have a clear path objectively from life to death, and that can be fully accounted for. However what's after death is unanswered by anything definitive. There are NDEs which seems to wrap around a person's belief systems and gives them a satisfactory answer to the purpose of life; however it's anecdotal even with so many cases(I'm bias towards NDEs). There are a lot of accounts that after we leave our bodies from the people who have experienced NDEs that they feel 'free' and that being in a body felt like they were nauseas with a lot of drawbacks.

Now there's Neville Goddard which had a strictly religious view and saw imagination as omnificent, which lies with god and being omnipotent and whatnot. He talked about Jesus and belief, prayers and the laws of attraction which your imagination can manifest if you focus on it. The way he died too is interesting. His view on life was simple "the purpose of life is to fulfill the word of god" Here's one of his quotes.

"Consciousness is the one and only reality, not figuratively but actually. This reality may for the sake of clarity be likened unto a stream which is divided into two parts, the conscious and the subconscious. In order to intelligently operate the law of consciousness it is necessary to understand the relationship between the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious is personal and selective; the subconscious is impersonal and non-selective. The conscious is the realm of effect; the subconscious is the realm of cause. These two aspects are the male and female divisions of consciousness. The conscious is male; the subconscious is female. The conscious generates ideas and impresses these ideas on the subconscious; the subconscious receives ideas and gives form and expression to them. By this law-first conceiving an idea and then impressing the idea conceived on the subconscious-all things evolve out of consciousness;"

People define their own meaning in life, we always carve our own path even in our weakest moments where we're paralyzed. The only true equalizer is death.

My opinion on it is simple, we live and we die. We have the choice by our own hands to end our lives whenever we want; however that doesn't mean that it's a bad choice. If there's something I've learnt is that humans seem to attain consciousness, we don't have it, we're receiving it. That to me means that even if we die there's no death, it's just that there's a life after life.

If anything is certain about life, it's not the end goal but the journey and how it's placed you to where you are today. Believe in yourself no matter your actions, even in despair. I'll believe in you too. 🫂
 

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