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Chemi

Chemi

*.✧ Que Sera, Sera ✧.* | 25y/o fem
Nov 25, 2025
210
Hey, I have been struggling lately a lot with panic attacks, and while I tried many techniques over the years, I would love to know what helps you all during panic attacks?

My go-to techniques are:
  • Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7, exhale for 8. Helps me calm my heart down.
  • Describing 5 things I can see, 4 I can touch, 3 I can hear, 2 I can smell, 1 I can taste. Helps me ground myself usually in the here and now. Especially helpful with anxiety about the future.
  • Holding an ice cube or running your hands under cold water. Like a safe self-harm option that still shocks me back into reality a little.
  • Wrapping myself very tightly in a blanket or using a weighted blanket to create my little safety cocoon :D
  • Repeating a sentence over and over. Something like: "This feeling is temporary" "I am safe" "This will pass" Something simple but positive.
  • Repetitively writing a simple sentence like: "I am having a panic attack, and it's okay to feel this" I try to write it as pretty as I can, so I have to really focus on it. Helps me break thought loops. Though write it with an actual pen on paper. Typing on my phone never helps me, but it actually kinda does the opposite, and I stress myself more.
  • Squeezing and releasing your fists or a stress ball. Over and over. Great way to let my frustrations out a little, that isn't self-harm.
If all that doesn't help, then I usually listen to the loudest and most aggressive rock music I can find to overwhelm my brain, or smell these ammonia ampules.
If you don't have them, they are great at shocking you back into a sound mind for 15-20 minutes. Use the time they give you to then try your normal skills, so you don't slip back into panic.

Ammonia-Inhalants-Smelling-Salts.jpg


What helps you all calm back down?
 
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Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
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Quietist

Quietist

Lost Cause
Sep 6, 2024
249
Using the inner voice and saying, "I'm okay" repeatedly.

Then going for a distraction, usually via a Youtube video, especially the frequencies and binaural beats.
 
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Chemi

Chemi

*.✧ Que Sera, Sera ✧.* | 25y/o fem
Nov 25, 2025
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NearlyIrrelevantCake

NearlyIrrelevantCake

The Cake Is A Lie
Aug 12, 2021
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Breathe2
This kind of breathing really does help me during anxiety attacks, meltdowns, etc.

I have this specific image saved because seeing the animation also helps me and keeps me on pace.
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay ⋅ he/him
Nov 21, 2024
457
Listen to music and cry. I held in so much of my emotions as a kid that I have to cry regularly or else I'll either explode (aggression, self harm, psychotic breajs involving impulsive often suicidal actions) or implode (isolation, planning CTB without much forethought of anything else). So now I just find a way to let that out, and it makes panic attacks last shorter.

That's what happens when you send your autistic kid to be "fixed" and expect it to work, I guess.
 
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Cauliflour

Cauliflour

The masochist who doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
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I've never had a panic attack I think. How do people get them? Am I just that out of touch with my emotions that I don't realise?
 
Cauliflour

Cauliflour

The masochist who doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
586
You are the chosen one!!!
Nahhhh I feel like I'm missing out cause mental health PSAs and people online keep talking about panic attacks like they're this normal, somewhat common thing and I feel like I'm missing out on an integral part of the shitty mental health experience. I can't really tell if I'm scared or not other than my heart and breathing goes weird and my skin feels like it's being lifted out of me but that just happens sometimes so I don't think much of it. Maybe I'm just so good at being paranoid that I avoid any instances. Either way, the whole "freaking out, crying, screaming" thing doesn't happen to me. If something is going to happen then I just get really focused on rationalising and planning what I'm going to say before, during and after. I don't get angry anymore either. I don't really act much cause I can't read my feelings for shit. It's really annoying, I wish I lived in the sims and i had a nice little avatar in the corner telling me what I'm feeling and why.
 
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Sannti

Sannti

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Dec 8, 2022
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It helps me so much when I put my hands on my chest as I start to feel calmness and I also have a feeling that I am safe <3
 
gottacheckout

gottacheckout

COB
May 20, 2025
618
I hug and pet my fur babies. The Lunatic is always up for a snuggle
 
weeping<3willow

weeping<3willow

New Member
Oct 14, 2025
4
olanzapine rapid release. works wonders for me, but i know not everyone has access to a psychiatrist.
 

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