I feel this. In my experience, anyone who says there's hope, there's something to live for, it will get better: they have lives that are objectively better than mine. I know everyone experiences their own pain in their own way and it's all relative, but knowing my peers, my life has been and continues to be the hardest out of all of them. I've had the most suffering, the most bad luck, the most loss especially at a young age. They don't know how much worse it could be for them, and that's why they don't understand why someone might want to die