Thank you @Cathy Ames, you are such a wonderfully kind and caring soul!
Yes, I can give a good one on this subject, here it goes.
After a night in the beer hall, I was "made" and when I was born, I was a male child, not female, for which my "parents" had hoped for. My "dad" wanted to leave me at the hospital for adoption, but my "mother" said it would be too embarrassing public wise, so I went home. YA!
You see, their 1st born was a male child, which my "dad" wanted and when my "mother" got pregnant with me they hoped for a daughter, a complete family in their eyes. Well, I was a male. They tried once more and got the daughter that they wanted.
Growing up, I heard all the time this, my "dad" had his son, and my "mom" had her daughter, and I was a "mistake" In fact till I was kicked out at 18 my "parents" called me mistake all over the place even on public. So embarrassing!
When I got 18, they kicked me out and I never heard from them again ever, 100% their choice.
To add salt to the wound, when my "parents" died, they left my younger sister a hobby farm and cash and my older brother got 4 million U.S. dollars and I got zero.
So, in conclusion, my heart aches for each and every soul who ever has or and to endure such hell.
Walter