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- Apr 10, 2020
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Sometimes I just want to tell my friends that I want to die, simply because my friends used to tell me that. At least three of my friends had confessed to me about harming themselves or wanting to die. I always responded kindly, like telling them not to do it, ask for help, and if they did ask for help I encourage them and just generally be a normal friend and offer a place to talk. That was a few years ago, the most recent was in early 2020 but they seem to be doing well. It's just, I feel like it's not fair that they could talk to me and got supported but once they got better I couldn't talk to them the same way.
I desperately want to just say something to my closest friend, but I can't because it could potentially be triggering. This friend of mine used to be depressed and suicidal but he got therapy and is getting better, but I can't risk it just for my own satisfaction. I just want him to tell me it will be fine and that he will be there for me.
He once said to me that he believes that I'll always be here for him and that makes him not putting as much effort to keep me as a friend. I want to tell him partly because I want to show him that I could be gone anytime. It's not that I want to threaten him, not like "if you stop talking to me I'll kill myself!" kind of thing, but more like "I'm about to die, please just talk to me for one more day before I decided to do anything." Idk if this makes me a bad person. I haven't said anything to him though.
This is such a mess, haha. I don't even know if there's a point in this post, but I'm going to post it anyway.
I desperately want to just say something to my closest friend, but I can't because it could potentially be triggering. This friend of mine used to be depressed and suicidal but he got therapy and is getting better, but I can't risk it just for my own satisfaction. I just want him to tell me it will be fine and that he will be there for me.
He once said to me that he believes that I'll always be here for him and that makes him not putting as much effort to keep me as a friend. I want to tell him partly because I want to show him that I could be gone anytime. It's not that I want to threaten him, not like "if you stop talking to me I'll kill myself!" kind of thing, but more like "I'm about to die, please just talk to me for one more day before I decided to do anything." Idk if this makes me a bad person. I haven't said anything to him though.
This is such a mess, haha. I don't even know if there's a point in this post, but I'm going to post it anyway.