Citruscine
dead in the head
- Mar 8, 2022
- 53
I went to the counselling office trying to see someone to talk to because I can't kill myself right now due to responsibilities, but dealing with suicidal thoughts all the time makes it really fucking hard to get through university.
The secretary couldn't book me in until several weeks out because of lack of scheduling availability, so I asked to talk to a same day counsellor tomorrow as I had class later in the day and the office would close before then. The secretary seemed to assume that I was just trying to get a sooner appointment and said rudely that those could only be booked on the day of and that they were only for crises. There were other people in line behind me and I couldn't explain myself because I was so anxious so I just said sorry and left.
How would she know whether or not I was in a crisis situation? I was seriously considering ctb-ing yesterday but had to talk myself down myself because I have no one else to talk to. If I can't access mental health resources in a timely manner, and I can't access the crisis resources (aside from helplines which have been useless in my experience or getting myself sent to a psych ward again by calling emergency services) wtf am I supposed to do?? Like fuck me, I guess I'll go k*ll myself then.
It makes me so mad how prolifers always talk about how suicidal people could just sort out their lives by "accessing mental health resources" or "talking to someone", but that doesn't change the fact that so many services are shit or inaccessible. Prolifer organizations should be more focused on improve mental health care instead of trying to shut one of the only forums for people to talk honestly about their suicidality.
Prolifers: "You're suicidal? Please talk to someone, it gets better I promise"
Suicidal people: *Make a forum to talk amongst themselves*
Prolifers: "Why are they making a community to talk about suicide?!?! We need to stop them!"
The secretary couldn't book me in until several weeks out because of lack of scheduling availability, so I asked to talk to a same day counsellor tomorrow as I had class later in the day and the office would close before then. The secretary seemed to assume that I was just trying to get a sooner appointment and said rudely that those could only be booked on the day of and that they were only for crises. There were other people in line behind me and I couldn't explain myself because I was so anxious so I just said sorry and left.
How would she know whether or not I was in a crisis situation? I was seriously considering ctb-ing yesterday but had to talk myself down myself because I have no one else to talk to. If I can't access mental health resources in a timely manner, and I can't access the crisis resources (aside from helplines which have been useless in my experience or getting myself sent to a psych ward again by calling emergency services) wtf am I supposed to do?? Like fuck me, I guess I'll go k*ll myself then.
It makes me so mad how prolifers always talk about how suicidal people could just sort out their lives by "accessing mental health resources" or "talking to someone", but that doesn't change the fact that so many services are shit or inaccessible. Prolifer organizations should be more focused on improve mental health care instead of trying to shut one of the only forums for people to talk honestly about their suicidality.
Prolifers: "You're suicidal? Please talk to someone, it gets better I promise"
Suicidal people: *Make a forum to talk amongst themselves*
Prolifers: "Why are they making a community to talk about suicide?!?! We need to stop them!"