Tried a relationship with real life and it didn't work out

[blue_muse]

Greetings everyone,


I thought I could be a normie, but the people around me and my environments had other ideas. So here I am again.

Going by experiences in the outside world, I've learned valuable lessons:

• Platitudes are empty words said to mean well, so the person saying them can say "I'm a good person".
• The people surrounding me don't have my best interests at heart.
• I'm not cut out for life.
• They'll always be obstacles.
• To never reveal my problems on mainstream websites. Last time I did, I was shouted down and invalidated.
• I'm always going to be labelled like most things I say or do are wrong in some way.
• The SS community is where it's at.
• To stop being someone I'm not.

If being on SS makes me disturbed, then I'm ready to embrace the dark side of life. That's if the SS community's wiling to have me back of course .

 

[FuneralCry]

I feel like many people can often be very selfish and disappointing and can just make things worse. I also feel like I am not meant for life, in my case I really should have never existed in the first place. I know that this life really can be so tiring and I'm sorry that things did not go the way you wanted them to be. I wish you relief from suffering in whatever happens.

 

[LoveYoux]

This site certainly has its place in this world

 

[blue_muse]

I feel like many people can often be very selfish and disappointing and can just make things worse. I also feel like I am not meant for life, in my case I really should have never existed in the first place. I know that this life really can be so tiring and I'm sorry that things did not go the way you wanted them to be. I wish you relief from suffering in whatever happens.

It's like constantly trying to be the person life expects you to be, only to get reactions that it's not enough. For example, if I show kindness then people see it as an opportunity to get something from me. Or if I take a stand against something or someone then "***'s getting arrogant".

People should understand that no amount of help from professionals, motivational words and so on can magically fix someone.

Im sorry to hear you haven't found your place in life either.

Thank you for your empathetic words .