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Kain10th
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- May 7, 2020
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And conversely do you think you'd also hate it if guys treated you like another guy?
Yh same. In real life though? It sucks. I find that I can vibe better with guys sometimes but it never works because they usually go and try something that makes the relationship weird. Also a lot of the time if a guy doesn't think you are fuckable they won't really give you the time of day. Same with some girls actually(if they don't think you are pretty.. or if they DO think you are pretty, then you're some kind of a threat), I wish people weren't so preoccupied with that shit and focused on the person in front of themI don't find guys treat me any differently online. The internet is faceless and no one knows whether the person they're talking to is legit male or female anyway.
What about in real life?I don't find guys treat me any differently online. The internet is faceless and no one knows whether the person they're talking to is legit male or female anyway.
I find your posts to be very gender-neutral. You have a fantastic way of writing.I am not like the other girls
Well idk I just do not like to see as gender being relevant yah know unless it relates to the context of a situation.When you say you are not like the other girls, is that specifically online, or in person as well?
this so much..The negatives outweigh the positives.
I think, maybe, some people could make a connection on here as more than friends. But this really, really is not the place to try to hook up with people. If anything, I think you can make genuine friends on ss because the majority of people on here are open minded, and may be the only people who understand what you're going through.Most people don't know who is what on here unless they make it abundantly clear.
One way to get treated differently (aka get attention) is to have an avatar of an attractive person, a lot of the community is just as superficial as the outside world unfortunately. There are also those who use such pictures to scam vulnerable and desperate members who succumb to treating this site like a dating app. I encountered one such individual-not from a scam but from them being a general ass to me on public threads-and they have since been banned. I'm sure they are back in another form however, with many others like them.
Why people use an image of people including themselves on the internet as an avatar is beyond my understanding.One way to get treated differently (aka get attention) is to have an avatar of an attractive person, a lot of the community is just as superficial as the outside world unfortunately.
It would be best not to add gender to non gender specific things like complaining...Mansplaining doesn't help your case.
And the worst thing is that it makes you feel that they were never genuine with you from the moment they realized you are a girl.It does break my heart when i expected friendship but some guys treat it like a stepping stone for dating. Kinda made me feel like i got lied to.
Largely agree with your post and perspective and I will not go into the societal impact that normalizing divorce has had for example destruction of the nuclear family but I will say that woman then did not have the ability to leave a loveless marriage as they can today.if you think of these marriages that have lasted 50+ years its because the woman knew her role, thats right i said role.
i just love the idea of looking after a husband, being the one who cleans, cooks, house proud, you know all of those "stereotypical" things.
if you think of these marriages that have lasted 50+ years its because the woman knew her role, thats right i said role.
It would be best not to add gender to non gender specific things like complaining...