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waterrrrrrrrrbottel

Experienced
Jul 18, 2022
246
Hey, I plan on going on Friday, but I'm not sure if it will work. If it doesn't work, I don't want my closest friends to know I attempted, so I don't want them to see my suicide note until I'm probably dead (so about a week from my attempt). How do I pull this off? For my online friends, it's easy, but how do I time my suicide note for my IRLs?
 
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pphinquiry

Member
Apr 15, 2023
44
Schedule a email for 2 days later. You can cancel it if something goes wrong.

Gmail has this functionality
 
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sadToast

sadToast

2 slits im gone in the endless abyss
Apr 25, 2023
34
do you have an iphone? theres a way to automate texts for certain times and you can cancel them too
 
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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
7,355
What @pphinquiry said, but also keep in mind that Google tracks what users search and also Gmail looks at emails and what not. This is why anything related to CTB I never use those popular, free email platforms, just too much risk there.
 
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LateForTheBus

LateForTheBus

Experienced
Feb 7, 2023
228
I will have a text message on a delayed send going to my sister after 36 hours. That gives me plenty of time to cancel it if my CTB attempt fails.
 
corazon

corazon

"a heart's a heavy burden"
Mar 30, 2023
94
I'm planning to schedule mine too. My idea was to use Gmail too just as the first option coming to mind, but it's an interesting point @TAW122 makes... Not sure what alternatives I have available but I don't have an iPhone so I won't be texting them.

I often worry that in the event I fail my attempt, I might not be capable of cancelling my suicide notes (for example, a brain damage or coma situation). And I don't want my family receiving a suicide note for a living person 💀. But really, if I'm a vegetable, can't say it'd matter too much - not to me at least.
 
LateForTheBus

LateForTheBus

Experienced
Feb 7, 2023
228
Not sure what alternatives I have available but I don't have an iPhone so I won't be texting them.
I have an Android and am scheduling the delayed text. It's not only an iPhone thing. Just fyi. :wink:
 
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MildlyBetter

MildlyBetter

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Apr 17, 2023
57
I'm planning on just scheduling an email for a day or two after my planned date, so if I fail I can just cancel it.
 

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