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elizabethisworthless
Student
- May 27, 2020
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Woke up to my stepdad shouting at me and threatening to kill me cause my mum let me have some of there food last night and making me cry the urge to kill myself right now is high again
Woke up to my stepdad shouting at me and threatening to kill me cause my mum let me have some of there food last night and making me cry the urge to kill myself right now is high again
im not saying dont call 12, but they do jack. the abuser is usually "oh theyre autistic/mentally ill/just having a panic attack" and the cops are usually on a rush to do the next report so they'll believe them. best thing to do in an abuse situation is to run away with your shit and find a place. tough situations.I don't understand why he would be so awful to you from something so trivial. He sounds like a real caveman and should be treated like one.
Next time he's like that with you just throw the food in his face if he cares about it that much.
Is there anyway you would be able to stay at a friend or family's house if you feel you needed to get out?
Next time he threatens you don't hesitate to call the police if your safety is at risk. Citizens Advice can provide some useful information.
Don't let that steptwat get the better of you. Show his room temperature IQ ass that you're not gonna let him push you around without consequences. Stay strong Elizabeth
I completely agree with this.If you can't go to a friend's place to stay, you can leave the house and start looking for a safe houses for people fleeing domestic violence. I don't know the hotline numbers to call for help but someone here from your country (UK?) should be able to post some specific numbers for you to try.
The main thing is go get to a safe place. You can think about police reports and so on later. x
Elizabeth, once lockdown is over please go to a woman's refuge and start a new life away from your step dad and mum. I'm from the UK and can help you if you wantWoke up to my stepdad shouting at me and threatening to kill me cause my mum let me have some of there food last night and making me cry the urge to kill myself right now is high again
Yeah, sure, don't call the emergency, don't call the Police, just run on your own.
You guys are nuts.
He will hunt her down eventually.
People pay taxes for the certain forces to protect them. That's how the modern society works.
Elizabeth, once lockdown is over please go to a woman's refuge and start a new life away from your step dad and mum. I'm from the UK and can help you if you want
I'm simply advising her to make it a priority to get to a safe place, *then* calling the appropriate assistance.
Calling police to her home seems likely to turn into a he-says-she-says in which the police are likely to avoid taking sides and if she's still there she'll be in for angry repercussions.
Police were called out last time they didn't do nothing except give him a warning I have no where to go as in family or friends wise either so I have no safe place to go to since nothing can help just feel like the best way would be to end all this I hate my life anyway this stress just adds onto it I would probably get in more trouble for doing that and defending myself also I'm worried would physically hurt me even more I feel so alone like there's no help because no one listens when I try get help feel so lonely and want to end because I'm tired the abuse. My mum and my Nan says that it's normal and he has every right to take his anger out on me if that's what helps him calm down. No one cares hardly in this world feel so hopeless and stuck here just want to disappearStep one, kick him in the nuts, break some sh*t on his head in self defense.
Step two, call the Police, not some Bobbies for f*ck's sake, call a SWAT team.
Live on !
Please help I don't know how to go about thisElizabeth, once lockdown is over please go to a woman's refuge and start a new life away from your step dad and mum. I'm from the UK and can help you if you want
Please help I don't know how to go about this
Omg sweetheart, i really feel for you. That's awful. Is he there all the time?Woke up to my stepdad shouting at me and threatening to kill me cause my mum let me have some of there food last night and making me cry the urge to kill myself right now is high again
Yeah, read all the government BS sites while being beaten.
You can call the pigs and push them to do something! Record it with your phone.
I will try my best. It's a joke in the UK. Other European countries with the same deaths have opened up much more than us. Elizabeth please DM me and tell me what town/ county you are in so that I can help you@KUA, are you here? Elizabeth needs your help finding a safe place. Waiting for lockdown to end isn't practical; there must be somewhere she can go *now*.
@elizabethisworthless, I'm not from the UK so I don't know the best place to phone, but here are some possibilities:
>> Call Refuge's National Domestic Abuse Helpline for free and confidential advice, 24 hours a day on 0808 2000 247. Visit the helpline website to access further information, a contact form and the live chat service. If you are in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the police.<<
Domestic abuse: how to get help
Find out how to get help if you or someone you know is a victim of domestic abuse.www.gov.uk
Cool story bro, any form of encouragement still helps and 90% of the advice given here is pretty good anyway. It's not like I'm going to drive to the other side of England to tell her what to do in person.Virtual patting on the shoulder won't work. Awesome Wizard on the message board with almost 4K likes.
She needs a physical help.