epic

epic

Enlightened
Aug 9, 2019
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Just leaving a letter for your loved ones and wandering of in a remote place where no one will ever search for your dead body... Will save a lot of trauma of finding the dead body for the family or would the absence of a body worsen it ?
 
Rocksandsand

Rocksandsand

Specialist
May 26, 2019
396
Depends on the family of course, but I think people from Western cultures (and particularly, older people) find grieving less traumatic with the presence of a body...

Having said all that - I'm not sure if that applies to some of the more graphic methods (train; shotgun to the face)
 
Lookingforabus

Lookingforabus

Arcanist
Aug 6, 2019
421
I would think most people would spend money and time searching anyway, and it's pretty hard to travel far in our modern world without leaving a trail. Seems like they'd spend days or weeks worrying and searching, probably end up finding your body anyway, and what if they get a bill for the search effort?

And if they don't find you, that might even be worse. I've met people who are still wrapped up in grief and denial and trying to find a loved one *years* after they went "missing", and it's just horrible. They know, but they can't accept it on the desperate hope that their loved one is still alive, so they're stuck in a horrible grieving-but-not-grieving, knowing-but-hoping, putting their lives on hold in a futile crusade to bring back their loved one alive.

Once upon a time, I considered moving abroad, or spending a year traveling the world or the like, and winding up dead where I'd never be found, or just not noticed among the all the other bodies. I figured out that would just draw things out, though, keep them suffering indefinitely. Their going to worry and grieve, may as well let them get through it quick.

The presence of a body does generally help people grieve and move on, though it's best to arrange to have someone else find the body, so I think that's the way to do it, at least in general.
 
Ruffian

Ruffian

Jumpin Jack Flash, it’s a gas gas gas
Jan 16, 2019
696
Yeah, I would want someone professional, like a cop to find me. In my Fuck the Police T-shirt of course. I just feel bad thinking of whoever they call to identify the body.
 
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