Venting The truth that in some cases nothing will help makes people so uncomfortable

[CatabolicSeed]

Everyone is like SURELY there's SOMETHING that can be done. More therapy, a new kind of meds, exercise and eating healthy, suicide hotlines, mental hospitals, some other treatment, better circumstances, a better job, a hypothetical better society, whatever. They can't get it through their heads that nothing will help because it makes them uncomfortable. They want to feel like there's something they can do to help, or something I can do to fix myself, or at the very least that there's a hypothetical perfect society that could exist in which I could be happy. But there isn't. I am broken, INHERENTLY. The truth is that as long as I continue to be alive I will be actively suicidal. There is NOTHING that can be done to fix this. I wish people would get this through their heads.

 

[Darkmoon Queen]

"A just world is a sane world"

People need their concept of heroes and monsters. They short circuit when you point out that most things are grey.

 

[xLosthopex]

Yeah it's so annoying
Someone(who I don't know) commented on one of my Instagram pics yesterday saying "You can recover!"(relating to my anorexia)
Like how fucking stupid and ignorant can one person be ? How the hell do you know I can recover random person on the internet who knows absolutely nothing about me and my situation ?
Then they responded to my comment, where I said something similar to the above, like "Well the choice is recovery or death, just saying"
And I was just like yeah I know, I choose death lol

 

[noname223]

Many people think every problem can be fixed. My current therapist thinks that and if things go wrong he blames me. The truth is I am way to ill. It is annoying and sometimes the people blame it on you if you don't get better. As if I had a choice.The people on this forum really know this feeling.

 

[Ash]

We all know that certain physical conditions are terminal so why can't people accept that the same is true for mental health? Just let us go in peace FFS.

 

[FuneralCry]

Yes, many people are in denial of the fact that things can get that bad that one would consider ctb. Those types of people are likely not suicidal themselves so they will never be able to comprehend what it is like. They dismiss those who are suicidal as thinking irrationally. The truth is that things can get that hopeless. Life is unfair and it is the harsh reality is that sometimes there is nothing that can help. It shatters the delusion that people hold, that life is always worth living. If they acknowledge that things could get hopeless for one person that will scare them as it makes them aware of the fact that they could end up in a similar position. This life holds unlimited potential for suffering after all.
They should just legalise euthanasia in my opinion. It is cruel how we are expected to suffer for decades.

 

[Myono93]

Life isn't for everyone. I don't get why that's so hard for most people to understand.

 

[Journeytoletgo]

People can't understand the concept that not ALL lives can have a "quality" to them. Some of us are subjected to things out of our control from the beginning. People also like to know they have some control over their circumstances that the universe is fair and cares how things can turn left right up down side ways. It hurts to know when you're so busy experiencing greatness someone close to you is suffering in unbearable conditions that knocks those around them and their emotional/mental well being.

 

[existtosuffer]

No therapy can change the fact you're going to die. No exercise will change the fact you're going to die. No positive thinking will change the fact you're going to die. I even went for a nice hike yesterday, which put me in a brief good mood only to just return back to thinking I'd be better off dead again the following day.

Some people's brains are hardwired to block out these discomforting truths more easier than others. It's all part of this weird, pointless, evolutionary process where we've monetised being advanced cavemen living in more advanced caves.

If there was an intelligent life form that could travel through different galaxies, and visited us. We'd end up being lower in the food chain than them or they would just domesticate us. They would look at us the way we look at animals in wildlife documentaries.

Our way of living is flawed, despite our advances, because we're still animals with animal instincts.

 

[mentalhealthfighter]

Life isn't for everyone. I don't get why that's so hard for most people to understand.

Because its shatters their worldview.

 

[Darkover]

born into a prison free your mind

 

[arie]

I feel you. There is nothing that'll change my mind so I just don't tell anyone, I know they won't be able to help. People won't care enough to try and help anyway

 

[rationaltake]

Death is certain. The only question is when. I happen to prefer sooner rather than later.

 

[Feeding Pigeons]

Obviously I don't know this firsthand, but I feel that older civilizations, specifically the greeks, romans, and the japanese during their feudal era, understood that suicide and facing death on your own terms was an inherent human experience. They didn't pussyfoot around it, and they were stronger for it.

Today, its like many others have said here, people have this weird aversion to just admitting that life isn't for everyone and some simply cannot hack it. We've become so much weaker and callous for it. Its just another thing we sweep under the rug and pass off to someone else as if it makes the problem disappear. I hate it. I think its so fucking insulting and inhumane that people on here have to fucking use bitcoin to secretly order poison to have a peaceful death. Its disgusting.

 

[Mr2005]

Everyone is like SURELY there's SOMETHING that can be done. More therapy, a new kind of meds, exercise and eating healthy, suicide hotlines, mental hospitals, some other treatment, better circumstances, a better job, a hypothetical better society, whatever. They can't get it through their heads that nothing will help because it makes them uncomfortable. They want to feel like there's something they can do to help, or something I can do to fix myself, or at the very least that there's a hypothetical perfect society that could exist in which I could be happy. But there isn't. I am broken, INHERENTLY. The truth is that as long as I continue to be alive I will be actively suicidal. There is NOTHING that can be done to fix this. I wish people would get this through their heads.

How is anyone to know though? All I've got is your word, I know nothing about you. It's why I don't know if I'd ever be comfortable having a partner for ctb. Would you?

 

[edu0z]

That's when I don't get it. I apparently have no problem. I have friends, I am the most attractive man on the face of the earth and I could have any girl I wanted (even at one time I took refuge in sex and polyamorous relationships, all with equal results). I have no problems with money because I spent all my adolescence studying the stock market and I know it by heart... and yet, with everything so beautiful: I WANT TO DIE EVERY SECOND I AM ALIVE. I can't think of anything else, I can't eat, I can't sleep, I just don't want to live. I've already tried too many "Solutions", and I don't care if there are still more... I just want to leave at once.

 

[mentalhealthfighter]

That's when I don't get it. I apparently have no problem. I have friends, I am the most attractive man on the face of the earth and I could have any girl I wanted (even at one time I took refuge in sex and polyamorous relationships, all with equal results). I have no problems with money because I spent all my adolescence studying the stock market and I know it by heart... and yet, with everything so beautiful: I WANT TO DIE EVERY SECOND I AM ALIVE. I can't think of anything else, I can't eat, I can't sleep, I just don't want to live. I've already tried too many "Solutions", and I don't care if there are still more... I just want to leave at once.

Depression?

 

[Death is your gift]

I think its so fucking insulting and inhumane that people on here have to fucking use bitcoin to secretly order poison to have a peaceful death. Its disgusting.

I fully agree with that. It is absurd that we have to hide in the darkness to find a solution suitable to us, whereas the mean to go peacefully exist... All that because most of the people does not accept that some people cannot find any other solution than death.