Venting The person who cared about me most doesn't anymore

[exiled]

It hurts more than anything I could ever explain.

I just had major surgery and spent the last four days in the hospital. I'm in pain, I'm sick, I just want to die. But above all, I wish he cared the way he did. I feel so stupid.

 

[allthatimsaying]

Probably a dumb question, but can there be another "he"?

 

[Life_and_Death]

i hope you get better soon

 

[exiled]

Probably a dumb question, but can there be another "he"?

i dont know, it just goes so deep. it isn't even necessarily a romantic thing, its a soul connection to someone that i feel like i've lost. perhaps all my eggs in one basket was my mistake, but here i am, suicidal. obviously not solely because of *him* but because my life is just... over. in general. i wish i had a painless way.

 

[Downdraft]

Can I ask what happened between you two?

 

[exiled]

Can I ask what happened between you two?

honestly? hes my therapist, who others on this forum have pointed out to be a narcissist. we got very entangled, its extremely messy. the situation is so fucked up that i dont even know if it's redeemable.

 

[allthatimsaying]

Well, a soul can establish more than one connection in a lifetime. You could indeed have a connection with him, but probably it should not stop there.

Or do you think your life is at a point of no return? Have you considered getting another therapist?

Either way, a painless way is all I wish for you. Also, another "he" too.

 

[4everDone]

You need to understand people better then. If you knew before hand who he was and still allow yourself to get hurt then idk. Dealing with narcs is like a stick with two ends. Just let them know they pathetic and forget about your pain.

 

[Save_Me_Mind]

It hurts more than anything I could ever explain.

I just had major surgery and spent the last four days in the hospital. I'm in pain, I'm sick, I just want to die. But above all, I wish he cared the way he did. I feel so stupid.

I hope the surgery was a success and you feel better soon. I'm sorry that your friend doesn't care about you anymore, but we're all here for you.

 

[mortuarymary]

Only because she died. Miss you mom.

 

[kindalone]

honestly? hes my therapist, who others on this forum have pointed out to be a narcissist. we got very entangled, its extremely messy. the situation is so fucked up that i dont even know if it's redeemable.

This "entanglement" sounds extremely sus and unprofessional. I hope you find a better therapist that can provide you with better care and treatment. You deserve better.