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roaming_soul
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- Dec 29, 2021
- 49
I came so close to ctb years ago. The preparation, the lack of fear & guilt and a trust in my decision were all there. But I failed. So I took that as an opportunity to begin my 'healing journey'. It's been almost 7 years. Still, I keep finding myself here where I don't want to be a part of this life. I am trying, but sometimes it feels like I'm fooling myself.
My main support and motivation to get better and do better has been my younger sister. I look at her and I see so much life and love. The thought of turning her world upside down destroys me inside.
That doesn't mean I'm not 'ready'. The true weight of a decision like this is too much for one person to consider.
My mom attempted to take her life 9 years ago. I don't blame her for what she tried to do but that experienced has coloured my life since. It'd be unfair for me not to consider how my choice would do the same to others. Mostly my sister who means everything to me.
How do I come to terms with the effect of my decision? How do I do that without even getting to speak about it and lay my heart bare? I don't want her life to fall apart because of me.
My main support and motivation to get better and do better has been my younger sister. I look at her and I see so much life and love. The thought of turning her world upside down destroys me inside.
That doesn't mean I'm not 'ready'. The true weight of a decision like this is too much for one person to consider.
My mom attempted to take her life 9 years ago. I don't blame her for what she tried to do but that experienced has coloured my life since. It'd be unfair for me not to consider how my choice would do the same to others. Mostly my sister who means everything to me.
How do I come to terms with the effect of my decision? How do I do that without even getting to speak about it and lay my heart bare? I don't want her life to fall apart because of me.