You are a hero! You should feel nothing but pride for defending your sister and mother. I am really really sorry this sickening event happened to you
I'm really not, I'm just another lost soul but I appreciate your kind words. You're very kind, thank you *hugs*
I remember waking up soon after his death and everyone looking at me with disgust, I was spat at, sneered at, verbally assaulted by everyone in the neighbourhood. I even had rocks thrown at me lol I didn't understand what was going on. I felt like I'd stepped into the Twilight Zone. Then I opened the door and that's when I saw the newspaper. Someone had posted it through the door of my old home, the place he killed himself in. I read the story and I broke down in tears. My name was all over the front page and none of it was true. Not a word of it. They'd turned me into a pantomime villain with my dad playing the role of a tragic victim.
I confronted the journalist immediately, she said "I was just printing what YOUR family said about YOU during the inquest". I was several days into suicide bereavement and I lacked the emotional resources to cater for such a sense of betrayal. Or what felt like a betrayal at the time (I later found out that she was lying) but it was too late, her lies DESTROYED my family completely. Tore us apart forever.
My reputation was irrevocably destroyed and I was vehemently hated by everybody who knew me. I lost the job I had at the time, the friends I had too. I was exiled, excommunicated, I was driven out. I lost everything, everyone and the truth was covered up completely.
Another newspaper (The Guardian) took the lying even further. My dad hanged himself with steel rope in my old home. But they said he jumped to his death from the top of a parking lot. It's because my dad was airborne forces and they were trying to put a political spin on his training. The entire article was basically, a subtle attack on the airborne forces community. "Oh he was a paratrooper so it would make sense that a paratrooper would jump off a building..", you know? That was the mentality behind it.
Well, he never jumped off a building, he hanged himself in front of my bedroom with steel rope. He killed himself to "punish us" and to punish me for stopping him that day.
They also wrote about him like he was a kind of lonely, sympathetic character like John Rambo. A hard done by guy. That wasn't true either.
They falsified everything. Literally everything.