I will leave notes for my family (sister, mother, father), the people close to me, and then some people who have been special to my life. I wouldn't really put the blame on anyone, but I will be open about my thoughts (even if it might offend some people, at least they deserve to understand what I really think). I might even have a general note to you guys on here because once I ctb, someone else has to put up the good fight here and I don't want all the good insight and knowledge to just die with me. I believe some of my insights and perspectives may help to achieve the pro-choice society that most of dream of seeing one day and may also help strengthen arguments against pro-lifers.
Specifically, for my father, I will use logic to explain stuff (he seems to understand more logical reasoning and stuff) as well as my reasoning and absolving him of guilt, then instructions on what to do after my death (no funeral, take my money and assets, etc.). For my mother, it will be short, absolving her of guilt, and helping her cope with such a loss. For my sister, I will also absolve her of guilt, but will offer my opinion and two cents about how bad the system is and explain why I don't want 'help' and what not. I'm not going to shame or blame her, but at least help her understand my pov and why the system is bad (ironically she is a resident psychiatrist in another state so maybe she might just deny everything and ignore everything I say, but I trust that she is rational and smart enough to understand my reasoning - after all, she went through med school, she is more academically successful than me and has a higher IQ than me). As for people living around me such as landlord, roommates, and close people outside of my family, well I'll just keep my explanation short, absolve them of guilt, and of course they will receive my note after my family finds out. Then to the people who have been helpful and influential in my life, I absolve them of guilt, thank them for doing the right things and helping me while I was still alive, and help them cope. As for the people who have been bad and hurt me, well they don't deserve a note or explanation.