BleedingHeart

BleedingHeart

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What major details should be included?

I find myself including too much or too little and I always end up reading it thinking someone is going to think someone else hurt me. :( I worry about that even though my therapist, etc knows I've been struggling.
I'd like to keep it short-ish, but with proper info necessary. Thanks so much!
 
MeltingHeart

MeltingHeart

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Name,
age (if you like)
contact details of yr next of kin
brief note as to why- if you feel the need.
cant see there is much else needed. I guess some people may feel the need to add an apology. but thats a personal thing.
 
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fightingsioux

fightingsioux

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Look in the List of Resources. There's a section with links to "How to Write a Suicide Note". Some of the links are broken.
 
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Flume

Flume

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Have an ID on you, the cops (where I live anyway) will contact next of kin based on that.
 
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Stan

Stan

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Also include what you have taken in case they think your remains are a hazard to them in anyway
 
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Sweet emotion

Sweet emotion

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What major details should be included?

I find myself including too much or too little and I always end up reading it thinking someone is going to think someone else hurt me. :( I worry about that even though my therapist, etc knows I've been struggling.
I'd like to keep it short-ish, but with proper info necessary. Thanks so much!
You just say you're sorry to you're family but you couldn't live like this anymore. I don't know what you have but you just say you can't take being depressed or sick or whatever and what you want done with your body.
 
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Stan

Stan

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Anyone read the title!? OP is asking what to write for the first responders who find her.
 
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BleedingHeart

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Anyone read the title!? OP is asking what to write for the first responders who find her.
That. I could have clarified a bit more in the actual post though.
 
Stan

Stan

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That. I could have clarified a bit more in the actual post though.
I would suggest contact details of your next of kin or people who should be notified and what you took.
 
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fightingsioux

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That. I could have clarified a bit more in the actual post though.
BH- I'm a bit hesitant to even bring this up, but...as a practical matter, I think that whomever the first responders contact should know the person's wishes as to the disposal of his/her body. A lot of people say that they don't care, it's not their problem, etc., but personally I don't think it's fair to dump that decision on someone else.
 
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Jean4

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If you want to be nice, mention if you have HIV, Hepatitis or any other diseases that the responders should know about
 
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