eternalappraiser
Member
- May 8, 2020
- 13
On the surface, I have an almost perfect life. I have some inherent privileges due to being born white, male, with blond hair and blue eyes. My biological family is well-off enough to have provided for me my whole life (I'm 21 now) and I have never had to do without, my parents are also happily married and have been my whole life. I have a sister who has accomplished a lot, and even I have a few things I am proud of myself for doing (I've sang at Carnegie Hall! I love singing.)
My family is severely mentally ill, however. My dad would hold his suicide over everyone's head when I was a child, and my mom would often leave me and my sister alone for stretches of time as kids without reason. My sister is something, I'm not sure what and I don't really believe in psychiatric labels, but I'm sure she could get like a NPD diagnosis. I'm often blamed for a lot, even now as an adult. I understand that since I am the age of majority I could get off my ass and not deal with it, but I feel like I have to bear with it financially. But honestly it's not really the reason for wanting to die?
So I'm a trans woman (no. 1 reason for ctb'ing), I'm autistic but a late diagnosis, I've also been diagnosed with ADHD but have never been treated, alongside depression/anxiety (but who isn't?) The only time I've been medicated was as a teenager, then I stopped once starting hormones. I haven't been on hormones for 2, almost 3 months now due to pharmacy and doctor errors. I really just feel like shit all the time.
Basically, I want to kill myself because my problems can never realistically be solved. I'll never see myself as a woman, and that was the only thing keeping me from suicide, was seeing myself as a woman. Since that won't happen, I should die (it won't ever get better). And I mean, life is universally shit for everyone on this planet, I have it pretty good considering, still don't want it. The other mental things are burdens too but my main thing is I'll never be a woman.
My method should work out for me but I'm scared because I'm not super experienced with it and also I'm scared I'm gonna come back. It used to be my motivation for suicide, die so I can be reincarnated as a woman, now it scares me.
Also, I'm not trying to say being a woman is easier/better. It's just something I'm stuck on. Honestly I barely relate to other trans people because they all seem so happy and feel like themselves after doing everything and I still feel the exact same, but really just worse because I "changed" but nothing else did. Shit still sucks.
Anyway, thank you for reading all this.
My family is severely mentally ill, however. My dad would hold his suicide over everyone's head when I was a child, and my mom would often leave me and my sister alone for stretches of time as kids without reason. My sister is something, I'm not sure what and I don't really believe in psychiatric labels, but I'm sure she could get like a NPD diagnosis. I'm often blamed for a lot, even now as an adult. I understand that since I am the age of majority I could get off my ass and not deal with it, but I feel like I have to bear with it financially. But honestly it's not really the reason for wanting to die?
So I'm a trans woman (no. 1 reason for ctb'ing), I'm autistic but a late diagnosis, I've also been diagnosed with ADHD but have never been treated, alongside depression/anxiety (but who isn't?) The only time I've been medicated was as a teenager, then I stopped once starting hormones. I haven't been on hormones for 2, almost 3 months now due to pharmacy and doctor errors. I really just feel like shit all the time.
Basically, I want to kill myself because my problems can never realistically be solved. I'll never see myself as a woman, and that was the only thing keeping me from suicide, was seeing myself as a woman. Since that won't happen, I should die (it won't ever get better). And I mean, life is universally shit for everyone on this planet, I have it pretty good considering, still don't want it. The other mental things are burdens too but my main thing is I'll never be a woman.
My method should work out for me but I'm scared because I'm not super experienced with it and also I'm scared I'm gonna come back. It used to be my motivation for suicide, die so I can be reincarnated as a woman, now it scares me.
Also, I'm not trying to say being a woman is easier/better. It's just something I'm stuck on. Honestly I barely relate to other trans people because they all seem so happy and feel like themselves after doing everything and I still feel the exact same, but really just worse because I "changed" but nothing else did. Shit still sucks.
Anyway, thank you for reading all this.