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I'm sick of all of these movies that all pitch the same angle - someone is broken but they get better by the end of the movie, usually with the help of loving guidance. We all know this is a crock of shit, and the reality of life is that you stay stuck, mired in your difficulties and inadequacies until death. Compare two movies I watched recently:

Wreck it Ralph - the young girl is a "glitch" - replace that with whatever other buzzword, loser, failure, outcast, it all fits. During one scene in the movie, the normal girls bully her and tell her she'll never be one of them and she'll always be a glitch. Of course, right at that moment, Ralph comes to defend her, and eventually she becomes winner and queen and her liability of being a glitch turns out to be her greatest asset, blah blah blah, feel good fairytale crap full of pomp. Nonsense.

Compare this with cool hand luke - mainly just the end. He finds himself in a church and goes out on a limb to pray to god for help. He accuses god, rightly, of never giving him a fair hand. Then he looks up expectantly. What does he get? Nothing. He shakes his head and says "of course." I won't spoil the ending but suffice to say, things don't go his way and he doesn't get his good hand like in all these crappy, fake Disney movies. Harsh reality.

Please suggest to me some good movies that deal thoughtfully with the harsh reality of life. I'm not looking for movies that are excessive or smug, so no Wes Anderson please.
 
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Check out The Sunset Limited. I thought it was a very interesting discussion about suicide from two perspectives.
 
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Depends what you mean by the harsh reality of life. But I love Nil By Mouth. It's a British film about things like domestic violence and drug abuse, both of which I've experienced and it's real and vivid in its portrayal.
Chopper is epic too.
 
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Manchester by the Sea.

A realistic depiction of a depresive man who just cant or dont want to get over a brutal life experience.

The movie is extremely relatable by anyone, minimalistic and very well acted.
 
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I was just blowing up chat about it, but Goodfellas is just not a happy flick. Bronx Tale is a downer too, and at least partially non-fiction.
 
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I've listed my favourite films before and they all have one thing in common, they're emotionally devastating. I like things that have insight into the human condition. That's what film should do, make you think. Any subject can be tackled but it has to come from a good place. Open your eyes, Melancholia and Mulholland drive are what you're after. Twin peaks:fire walk with me but not until you've seen the series. Blade runner and Memento are a couple more favourites. How could I forget Dead Ringers or The Fly? How about Brazil and Twelve Monkeys? There's loads tbh
 
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Just realized I mistakenly posted this here and not in offtopic, sorry.
 
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I haven't seen it, but the book was excellent.

I've listed my favourite films before and they all have one thing in common, they're emotionally devastating. I like things that have insight into the human condition. That's what film should do, make you think. Any subject can be tackled but it has to come from a good place. Open your eyes, Melancholia and Mulholland drive are what you're after. Twin peaks:fire walk with me but not until you've seen the series. Blade runner and Memento are a couple more favourites. How could I forget Dead Ringers or The Fly? How about Brazil and Twelve Monkeys? There's loads tbh
Memento :heart: :heart:
 
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