Sudden suicides

[xeno112007]

How sudden suicides actually works. I have been planning to cbt myself for a long time. I wonder how people cbt suddenly like a mother cbt after child's death. I can understand the emotions. But how they can overcome si in short amount of time? I am kinda want to understand how they felt. Anyone here knows anything about this?

 

[Forveleth]

The things is, we do not know if those were "sudden" at all. People could have been hiding their suffering for years beforehand and maybe one event (like a child dying) was the last stray that pushed them over the edge. Whether slowly or suddenly, it is all about your grief, sadness, and hopelessness becoming stronger than your will to live.

 

[Alpacachino]

The things is, we do not know if those were "sudden" at all. People could have been hiding their suffering for years beforehand and maybe one event (like a child dying) was the last stray that pushed them over the edge. Whether slowly or suddenly, it is all about your grief, sadness, and hopelessness becoming stronger than your will to live.

Yeah, I believe it's the straw that broke the camel's back.

 

[xeno112007]

The things is, we do not know if those were "sudden" at all. People could have been hiding their suffering for years beforehand and maybe one event (like a child dying) was the last stray that pushed them over the edge. Whether slowly or suddenly, it is all about your grief, sadness, and hopelessness becoming stronger than your will to live.

That makes sense. But is depression is the only thing that pushes suicide? Like I am not depressed now to be honest I am more happy than ever but I am still planning cbt for not suffering in future. Am I not suicidal? I kinda feel confused about am I suicidal or not.

 

[indianachrome]

desperation will do that to anyone. I was so overwhelmed the other day I almost had an "accident" and crashed into a semi truck. The more intense the desperation, the more things can unfold quickly

 

[Forveleth]

That makes sense. But is depression is the only thing that pushes suicide? Like I am not depressed now to be honest I am more happy than ever but I am still planning cbt for not suffering in future.

It is not always about "depression" or "being depressed". There could be fear involved. People's reasons for killing themselves are often complex. I was merely giving one example.

Am I not suicidal? I kinda feel confused about am I suicidal or not.

If you feel the desire to end your own life no matter the motivation, then I would say yes you are. However, I would also say just let it be what it is. You do not have to put an official label on your thoughts and feelings.