I'm looking at it like this,
I was forced to be a male with a heterosexual penis till i was twenty.
I thought the rules were i had to be bi first so i did that.
Then i was full gay, yay.
Then i stopped giving a shit.
When i came out to mom she asked why.
I shrugged and told her why sweat it, you already have enough grandkids
and at least one idiot son.
She shrugged and said yeah, that's true.
Some old folks are willing to come around, some aren't.