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noname223
Angelic
- Aug 18, 2020
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So many people are in huge pain in this forum. There are two dangers for me. Either becoming too desensitized to it or to suffer way too much because of it.
It is for me difficult. I try to keep a certain distance to the members of this forum. Not making a close bond to certain members which is really difficult because I like many people in this forum. Though in my clinc stays I have met a dude who was a mental wreck because his gf ctb 20 years ago. This has shown me that something like that can traumatize you.
But behind the profiles and words of the members of this forum there are true sentient human beings. I would like to be a better help for them. But I am quite busy with handling my own shit. I don't have much time or energy to help others. Sometimes the stories are also too sad for me. I ignore some threads due to that. If I wanted to make a competent advice I should spend some time for learning about the details. I still give advices when I consider them as helpful. But I am often also scared to make the situation even worse.
Do you know this feeling? How do you handle it?
I always hope people can get distraction through my threads in order to cope with their pain. Moreover I hope some feel comforted because they see that they are not alone with their desperation.
It is for me difficult. I try to keep a certain distance to the members of this forum. Not making a close bond to certain members which is really difficult because I like many people in this forum. Though in my clinc stays I have met a dude who was a mental wreck because his gf ctb 20 years ago. This has shown me that something like that can traumatize you.
But behind the profiles and words of the members of this forum there are true sentient human beings. I would like to be a better help for them. But I am quite busy with handling my own shit. I don't have much time or energy to help others. Sometimes the stories are also too sad for me. I ignore some threads due to that. If I wanted to make a competent advice I should spend some time for learning about the details. I still give advices when I consider them as helpful. But I am often also scared to make the situation even worse.
Do you know this feeling? How do you handle it?
I always hope people can get distraction through my threads in order to cope with their pain. Moreover I hope some feel comforted because they see that they are not alone with their desperation.